Bartender @ Applebees

Does anybody know the girl bartender at applebees? I think her first name is Cindy? Last name ? is she nice girl or
a flirt with all the guys? Worth my time?

Just Wondering wrote:

Does anybody know the girl bartender at applebees? I think her first name is Cindy? Last name ? is she nice girl or
a flirt with all the guys? Worth my time?

does she have dark hair or blonde

maybe wrote:

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does she have dark hair or blonde

dark hair

she's super nice!! I know she was dating a guy named Mike who, imho, is a complete ASS, and she can do so much better and doesn't deserve to be treated the way he treats her!

dude...you're weird...

I worked at applebee's with cindy. She is really happy and loves this guy and she has a right to make her on choices she's a big girl. Your advice isn't needed thanks

dont most female food service workers flirt anyway? i mean...us guys are soo stupid that we think they are into us..they just are hoping for a big tip and they know that they manipulate us with their girliness and we give in.

ydooucare...he is the manipulative jerk who makes her feel like she can't leave him, so while she does have the right to make her own choices, it is very unfortunate that Mike cheats (or...at least HAS cheated) on her. A man being manipulative like that is abuse (emotional), it is a cycle and it is hard for a woman to get out the abusive relationship. I'm not trying to bad mouth Cindy AT ALL, but even if you were a close (& good) friend, I would think you would put your two cents in to your friend on what's in her best interest. Sometimes people need another perspective to help them see the things they cannot.

dorkbox wrote:

dont most female food service workers flirt anyway? i mean...us guys are soo stupid that we think they are into us..they just are hoping for a big tip and they know that they manipulate us with their girliness and we give in.

I think you have a restaurant confused with a strip club

i worked at applebees and know cindy pretty well...shes an awesome person and doesnt deserve any of what he puts her through! "just_wondering" if you want to ask her out, then do it! who knows when those two will break up and you could be waiting in the wings! and all servers/bartenders are friendly by nature, and DO NOT just flirt to get a bigger tip! to see as many customers as servers and bartenders do in a day, you have to be extremely outgoing and nice! so "dorkbox" if you consider that flirting, then so be it! youre probably one of those rude a*s customers that everyone hates to wait on, you run our butts off for 20 refills and extra ranch and your steak wasnt cooked right, b*tch to the manager, get it all comped, dont have to pay a cent of your bill and still dont tip!

applebees_sux wrote:

i worked at applebees and know cindy pretty well...shes an awesome person and doesnt deserve any of what he puts her through! "just_wondering" if you want to ask her out, then do it! who knows when those two will break up and you could be waiting in the wings! and all servers/bartenders are friendly by nature, and DO NOT just flirt to get a bigger tip! to see as many customers as servers and bartenders do in a day, you have to be extremely outgoing and nice! so "dorkbox" if you consider that flirting, then so be it! youre probably one of those rude a*s customers that everyone hates to wait on, you run our butts off for 20 refills and extra ranch and your steak wasnt cooked right, b*tch to the manager, get it all comped, dont have to pay a cent of your bill and still dont tip!

Well sure didnt know she had a boy friend Mike who?
I guess that answers my question. Wont bother dont want to get mixed up in a break up but by the way she acted and some things that were said had no clue
she was even dating anyone steady much less one she cant get away from. NO THANKS.

like dorkbox said....how big was that tip?

cigo wrote:

she's super nice!! I know she was dating a guy named Mike who, imho, is a complete ASS, and she can do so much better and doesn't deserve to be treated the way he treats her!

When did nice girls start having affairs with married men? Ask Steve Sergent

yeah but wrote:

ydooucare...he is the manipulative jerk who makes her feel like she can't leave him, so while she does have the right to make her own choices, it is very unfortunate that Mike cheats (or...at least HAS cheated) on her. A man being manipulative like that is abuse (emotional), it is a cycle and it is hard for a woman to get out the abusive relationship. I'm not trying to bad mouth Cindy AT ALL, but even if you were a close (& good) friend, I would think you would put your two cents in to your friend on what's in her best interest. Sometimes people need another perspective to help them see the things they cannot.

and i agree that you have a right to speak to her ( in private) about this matter i myself was in bad relationship for many yrs and she watched the abuse i endured. Nobody can change her mind about what she wants.... i stayed with my baby's dad bc i was madly in love with him and we have a child together. If i know Cindy as well i think i do.... shes a very sweet and open person who would listen if you had a sit down with her.... however to broadcast her personal struggle on the internet would make her very angry

Just Wondering wrote:

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Well sure didnt know she had a boy friend Mike who?
I guess that answers my question. Wont bother dont want to get mixed up in a break up but by the way she acted and some things that were said had no clue
she was even dating anyone steady much less one she cant get away from. NO THANKS.

Would you be one of the many losers who are in there every damn day? i mean really..... she's a work she has to be nice and laugh ..... doesnt mean she wants your nuts!

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When did nice girls start having affairs with married men? Ask Steve Sergent

Steve's a nice girl?

ydoucare, you're right

ydoucare wrote:

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Would you be one of the many losers who are in there every damn day? i mean really..... she's a work she has to be nice and laugh ..... doesnt mean she wants your nuts!

OK scumbag didnt say she wanted my nuts!!! Unlike you I have more tact than that! However she did give me her number and sent a txt msg. with a picture which was very flirty so no dont think I read to much into it!!!!!!!!!!

she is a dirty crack ho

you are all duchebags.