I Hate my life and mom

Mothers can be bitches, but there are many who aren't

I am 17 and in december I will be 18 and she is treating me like a 5 year old vieo games are the only life I know and now she is saying "you can only play them 2 hours on weekdays" I mean it is just like... I swear to god I fucking just want to say what I feel to her but then she will say I am being disrespectful and twist my words to get my dad against me. GOD DAMNIT

I love my mom. But i hate my dad. He's distroy my family.

My mum is a huge bich if she wasnt my mum and a girl i would knock the***** out of her

Stephani wrote:

I HATE MY MOM AND LIFE

Me 2

Screw this, I hate my life and mom too, but u know what get over it you miserable sack o idiot. Life sucks u just need to wait and try to find one glimse of hapiness. get over yourself.

I don't hate my mum because she won't let me go out, I hate her because she abuses me and treats me like shit, she always leaves me home alone and goes to the casino in the night, and she never buys food, stop being a little dipshit and find a real reason to hate, people like you disgust me

When I skim through some of this comments it makes me upset; to think how some one can hate thier mother this much but than I think of mine. My mom's an utter BITCH! This isn't because she wouldn't let me go anywhere when I was younger... Ect. It's not some petty shit.
It's because ever since I could remember my mom always said the most fucked up shit to me.when I graduated high school she said thank god you haven't got pregnant yet.. Before that at prom it was how could you be her date my daughters such a bitch. I always told her I hated when she called me stupid or bitch and she would always say oh honey your not stupid you just act stupid she is such a fucking bitch and I'd wished she die... Later on she got her self a money leeching boyfriend... When I found out what type of guy he was I was trying to be there for her and I've even said it to his face to leave her alone he had some bitch call the house that he cheated on my mom with ... After all that bullshit she still let's him call me a bitch to my face while I'm just trying to defend her by saying she shouldn't go out with a scum bag like this that she deserves better... I have given up on her
Honestly it seems to me the older women get the more desperate to settle for pieces of shit men ...that's sad considering she always taught me never to count on a man count on yourself and family.. What a load of shit
She is getting more and more selfish everyday she's a Bitch point blank

i just can't nuderstand. why? how? hating somebody is not a wise way to solve problem. why not confront with the fact bravly and think a way out?

i wish my mother was dead. that she died in the most painfull way possible along with my father. they are both sons of bitches and i hate them with all my heart. im 13 and look 11 thats enough and they dont even care when i feel sad about that because to them its not a big deal. my mom has told me to go kill myself and i want to but im too scared, i guess i have to wait for the moment that i am so mad i will just do it. i have on my wrist and other parts of m body and anyone that meets m y parents and see our house will think they are great, but they dont know them. i behave good and tey dont think thats enough they tryv to forcve me to hang out with retards that they would like to be my friends. i wish they would die and no matte what others say i know that when i leave the house at 16 or 17 i will never see their ugly ass faces again, and when they die i will cry tears of joy. they dont beat me but teir attitudes are enoug everyone is against me and i hate my grandparents for giving birth to my parents. I CANT WAIT TO FUCKING DIE.

My mom threw me out of her car for practically no reason, she just wanted to take her anger out on someone because she was having relationship problems, which I understand, just don't throw me out of the car for it. She started talking to me like I was mentally retarded because I told her that if you put all of you'r food down the disposal it can break it. She does thing like this constantly. She labels anyone she doesn't agree with as someone with mental problems. She's done it to multiple people. If I could live with my dad and not see her until I'm fully grown, I would do it, I would not hesitate, I would never look back. I love her inside somewhere, but I don't even know if that's true, it's just a hope. The problem is that these things have nothing to do with raising me. My dad is really nice, and he's who I talk to. Thank god my dad and mom are divorced, and I have my dad. I think I would become depressed if I had to live with my mom full time. I'm not kidding, I started to become depressed but pulled out of it with a little help. I know my mom, she will NEVER change. I just posted this here to get my feelings out.

The thing is I try and not thing about this it's no big deal. I just saw this thread and decided to add to it. My problems are little compared to the problems of other people. I really did almost become depressed last year, but it wasn't really my mom that caused it... she just added to the other thousand things.

yeah wrote:

My mom's called me a bitch, an asshole, so many names. She has no personality and is an annoying child. I really do wish she would die or go away and never come back. I'd be so much happier with just my dad as a parent, as he actually loves me and cares about me and does things beside laundry and cleaning. She chooses not to have a job because she is lazy and has no skills and she takes all my dad's money for stupid things like hundred dollar face washes.

omg my mom is exactly the same way..... she is a horrible person.....

Just goes to show, no matter how bad things are....Somebody has it worse than you

My mom is nice to me sometimes but other times she is unfair and so mean . When I had a few clothes on the floor , she walked in and started yelling at me . My dad does that too . I have wanted my mom to die , and i have said that a few times but i don't mean it . I don't want her to die , I love her so much and if she ever does die , I wont get her back . If i ever say i wanted her to die and she did I would be sobbing . Somedays , I will hate her , but I don't want her to die .

Stephani wrote:

I HATE MY MOM AND LIFE

i hatr my mom too.she speaks awful bout me..says am useless beats me up with a bet eve tho am 16 i hate this woman

If my mom was dead my life would be so easy. I hate her she Freakin annoys me!!

Well, i am 13 and i am facing almost the same problem...my mom is just ...well, i can't say that i hate her at all because no matter how much we fight she will always be a part of me and my life, but now it's going over-board...my mom has a problem with me going out with my friends to the mall to watch a movie, she tells me that I'm "too young to hang out with friends" . I have dead straight hair and for my birthday which is today i asked for a step hair cut, i have been asking for that since like FOREVER, but no, is disagreed, most children of my age would ask for phones and laptops and other electronic stuff but i just asked for a simple step hair cut, she did not approve of that also, it's so IRRITATING. i am so sad and then she keeps arguing with me and when i try to explain the reason for my demand she starts yelling at me saying that i should not be back-answering. I don't understand her problem at all, she can get so annoying. Sh does not understand me at all, my dad does. and that fact that she does not give me a chance really get's me angry and i and up crying all night or i even feel like killing myself sometimes because i feel like I AM the problem in the life or i also end up feeling bad, i have not slept for days because of this drama. i fell so depressed now-a-days. This is just REALLY BAD. she wants me to be someone i am not, she wants me o study all day and make a boring career and i am not saying that i don't wanna study at all but that's not the only thing that i want to do i love singing and dancing and playing drums and my guitar and she knows all this but yet she wants to me to sit and study all day like a psycho i can't do that why doesn't she just get that it is annoying when she keeps pestering me for all this, she just does not get what I WANT FROM MY LIFE....and i don't wanna talk to her about this because it's just not me, i like to solve my problems on my own without involving anyone even if it is of my parents... i still definitely love her but she does not see it and i also get so dam angry (i am really short-tempered)so guys help please?
can someone tell me what to do???
(P.S-- don't give me ideas to go and talk to her about these problems because i am not going to do that---i just can't walk up-to her and talk to her about all this.)

Hello. I'm 13 and I'm in deep shit.
My whole family has abused me. The rest that don't even know me and live on the other side of the world also hate me. My dad is a screw up. My mom is an utter bitch.
My dad is a huge story I REALLY don't wanna talk about.
My mom always calls me an asshole, bitch, an ungrateful brat, dumbass, etc. I've been abused since I can remember by so many people. She forced me to go to an Elementary school where I was physically and mentally beaten the crap out of by the teachers and students every day. My arms were always covered in bruises. I kept crying and begging her to make me leave, but she did nothing about it.
My mom is overweight and doesn't have a job and always fucking complains about EVERY fucking thing. I am expected to clean our whole house (4 stories) EVERY day with no breaks. Everywhere. And I have to cook. If there is a spot on the dishes, the rule is I am grounded for a week.
I have never had a birthday party in my life. I've been screamed at at all of them.
I've never had one play date in my life.
I don't have a TV, iPod, Computer, or even some small handheld gaming system like a DS.
I'm in junior high currently and I am bullied all of the time. Im shoved against lockers and smashed up after school. I still get straight A's, though.
My mom is a lazy fuck so I have to watch my 5 year old brother. By that I mean every night my mom leaves at 6 pm to go out and comes back the next morning, so I have to feed him, change him, teach him new things, keep him safe, put him to sleep, etc.
What do I do... Please.

You call the cops, your school counsler, and dept of welfare.

Emma wrote:

Hello. I'm 13 and I'm in deep shit.
My whole family has abused me. The rest that don't even know me and live on the other side of the world also hate me. My dad is a screw up. My mom is an utter bitch.
My dad is a huge story I REALLY don't wanna talk about.
My mom always calls me an asshole, bitch, an ungrateful brat, dumbass, etc. I've been abused since I can remember by so many people. She forced me to go to an Elementary school where I was physically and mentally beaten the crap out of by the teachers and students every day. My arms were always covered in bruises. I kept crying and begging her to make me leave, but she did nothing about it.
My mom is overweight and doesn't have a job and always fucking complains about EVERY fucking thing. I am expected to clean our whole house (4 stories) EVERY day with no breaks. Everywhere. And I have to cook. If there is a spot on the dishes, the rule is I am grounded for a week.
I have never had a birthday party in my life. I've been screamed at at all of them.
I've never had one play date in my life.
I don't have a TV, iPod, Computer, or even some small handheld gaming system like a DS.
I'm in junior high currently and I am bullied all of the time. Im shoved against lockers and smashed up after school. I still get straight A's, though.
My mom is a lazy fuck so I have to watch my 5 year old brother. By that I mean every night my mom leaves at 6 pm to go out and comes back the next morning, so I have to feed him, change him, teach him new things, keep him safe, put him to sleep, etc.
What do I do... Please.