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match.com scam? or is she real? conartist?

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Mike1980

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#307
Sep 3, 2009
 
I got one of these scammers too from my match.com profile. "She" suddenly disappeared off of the match site as soon as we contacted. Then they wanted to chat on yahoo messenger, which I heard is the one they use. After a few days she said she needed money to pay courier fees to receive her paycheck from the states and needed 100 dollars. Stupdily I sent it western union, dumb dumb. But I got suspicious and sure enough she asked for 750 dollars next. That is when I cut it off. I am happy I only lost a 100 and will take this as a big lesson learned. If it is too good to be true it probably is. These people prey on someone they think might be vulnerable and willing to put themselves out there for "love".
Mia

Woodstock, CT

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#308
Sep 7, 2009
 
I am pretty sure I have just been scammed the same way, but by a man. Grew up in UK parents died in a car crash, living here in the US , 20 min from me. He is a freelancer who ran out of money, asked me for it. Of course I stopped the emails right there. The emails were so nice and thoughtful, although the English was a bit off. I was played for a fool. That hurt.
jaydub wrote:
hello,
i'm new to online dating and i just ran across a very curious girl. she sent me a message on match.com professing interest in me and how much she liked my profile. and she suggest i might email her to her yahoo address instead of through match.com .
after reading that initial match.com message, i tried clicking on her profile but it is unavailable (though her thumbnail pic still shows up in my "connections" page).
but i'm curious...her first message was very nice...the thumbnail looks good (from what i can see). so i email her yahoo address. we learn abit about eachother. she say she was born in the states. grew up in the UK. now resides in the same state as me in a city an hour or so away. she's modeling right now in nigeria...but is coming back home in one week. she plans to quit modeling.
we've exchanged 7-8 long emails in the last 2 weeks or so. and she's coming back home in one week. and wants to meet me when she gets back. no signs of typical scams...like mentions of money or tragedy or anything like that.
the thing that makes me suspicious is that her grammar is a bit off every once in a while...she's fallen for me far to quickly...she attributed some said things to me that i never said...one email contained a portion of stuff that was plagarized and used as her own...
what do you guys think? should i meet this person? or will that just wind me up in a body bag?
jimmy

Huntington Beach, CA

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#309
Sep 7, 2009
 
Has anyone been contacted by Lillian Cunningham. Even has a facebook page.
Monique

Miami, FL

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#310
Sep 16, 2009
 
De Benin Scam! I have been talking to 2 different guys for over a month, to find out they are both in the same scam, they sound great in most everyway. I am a foreigner so I thought well, their grammar is not the best, neither is mine... They started talking about their career in Benin as Engineers and the project, though the weeks they explain they were getting funds from the Government. Long story short, the question they both made is if I could send them part of the money they will repay. I am assuming the pictures are from people on the internet, with children and the whole sad story of a widow. I am done with online dating!
Crazy in California wrote:
Trust your instincts which seem to be telling you that something is off. I've done online dating and am actually engaged to someone I met online so I do believe it can work but you have to be wary. I never spoke by personal email or phone unless I have had multiple emails and then I showed it to friends. If I did meet a man somewhere, I always made it public and let someone know. A big clue...if they don't talk about family or friends locally...
Concerned

Ingram, TX

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#311
Sep 16, 2009
 
Mae_florida wrote:
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This all sounds familiar, a "Fredrick from Jacksonville, grew up in Ireland, and in Africa on business, with his son" ready to come home, needed cash for flight, and taxes...no family, friends, attorney, no one but me could help him out....beautiful prose, he fell in love within days...Nigerian cell phone...funny, he didnt have an Irish accent...and wasn't too familiar with grocery stores in J-ville-especially with a kid...now is looking for smaller amounts of money, and is suppose to send check....just waiting on the check to contact authorities...if anyone else has heard of him, please contact me...
I do have emails, and photos...
Interesting...what ever happend with this? Just curious, I fellow co-worker has been telling me of this guy she met on match.com about 2 months ago. My coworker (sorry to be mean) but is a 46 year old heavy smoker, grouch- not attractive at all and the guy in the picture is in his late 20s or early 30s, very attractive, originally from Sweden, supposedly lost his wife when she gave birth to their 6 year old son, whom he has with him, and he has been on business in Africa-- he's a supposed architect! He's asked her to marry him, and she thinks she's soo in love. Supposedly he's coming to the US to meet her and live here ina couple of weeks....
carolee

San Antonio, TX

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#312
Sep 19, 2009
 
i was in match.com once (only tried out for 1 month), i gave people my yahoo e.mail because i will be off match soon. so that they still can contact me.
not all people that give you yahoo e-mail are "scam",
please.
Gigi

Long Beach, CA

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#313
Sep 22, 2009
 
Hi! Yes, I could have almost been scammed by a guy I encountered on match.com . His name is Jones Harrison. He puts himself out there as a handsome part-German 48-year old contractor, divorced, living in Florida with a 10 year old kid ("Kelvin"). He uses some guy's pictures to say it's him. Yes, ladies (or gentlemen) watch out for people who want to chat with you and marry you after only a month of chatting. His Yahoo IM name is love_jones10042, which he uses on his yahoo e-mail too. Also uses jones_harrison09@yahoo.com.
susan wrote:
Anybody know a man named Jones Harrison, David Miller, Johnnie Jackson--yahoo email address-? I would like to exchange stories
Gordy

London, UK

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#314
Sep 25, 2009
 
Just had one try it on with me. She emailed me from Match.com and asked me to email her Yahoo account, sent he a few photo's as well, 4 or 5 email later she is asking me to send £1750 to help ship goods back to the UK for her business.

Fortunately my common sense finally kicked and I told her to sod off. In hindsight her written English was appalling and she was far to good to be true.

Changed all my passwords on the various sites I use, email, UK national lottery, etc to be completely random.

What is really annoying is that I should have known better, at least I didn't part wioth any cash
Dee

Rockaway, NJ

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Oct 22, 2009
 

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on Match.com , a scammer goes by the name heart_lovinnn_un, he is an imposter claims he lives in Warren, NJ. Goes by the name John Truglio. Tells me he is an architect and building contractor, widower, has 10year old girl. French accent. says he is 1/2 Italian and grew up in France. Run in the other direction as fast as you can. I reported him twice to Match, but his profile is back up. FBI has been contacted. It just isn't a safe world.I contacted the reall John Truglio who tells me that another Mach subscriber called him a whle ago with the same story. Scammers are relentless
whooops

Minneapolis, MN

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#320
Oct 27, 2009
 
First off, why would anyone decide to date from another country? Duh. Lets get real people, if you want a serious relationship, date someone in your own town!
Secondly, if you have ANY doubt at all, MOVE ON. Why would you take a chance and have that doubt in your relationship?
whooops

Minneapolis, MN

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#321
Oct 27, 2009
 
By the way, in defense for Match.com ... they have no way to screen these people out so we really have to use our common sense!
Bottom line... Be careful and DON'T be desperate!!!
All4

Honaker, VA

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#322
Oct 27, 2009
 
I signed up on Match.com , and I've had some great conversations with women(i guess)on there.

The thing is though, I'm not on there to have conversations, I'm on there because I want to actually meet people.

The problem is, when it comes time to actually meet, they disappear.

So, although they're not asking me for money or anything, they are scamming me because I paid to meet real people, but I'm only meeting the same people, only they're contacting me using different profiles.

It's like a downgraded version of phone sex or something.

To say the least, it pisses me off.

I could walk down the street and meet more real live people in real world situations, and I live in a small town.

Online dating is a nickle & dime scam guys, don't sign up.

Go out and talk to women in real life.
whooops

Minneapolis, MN

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Oct 27, 2009
 
All4 wrote:
I signed up on Match.com , and I've had some great conversations with women(i guess)on there.
The thing is though, I'm not on there to have conversations, I'm on there because I want to actually meet people.
The problem is, when it comes time to actually meet, they disappear.
So, although they're not asking me for money or anything, they are scamming me because I paid to meet real people, but I'm only meeting the same people, only they're contacting me using different profiles.
It's like a downgraded version of phone sex or something.
To say the least, it pisses me off.
I could walk down the street and meet more real live people in real world situations, and I live in a small town.
Online dating is a nickle & dime scam guys, don't sign up.
Go out and talk to women in real life.
I would have to disagree, I have met a lot of great women here. Why am I not "hitched"? Just haven't found the right one. Things happen in lifes and if you knew about what really happened with those women, you might then understand. We never understand what we can't see. Ask yourself if maybe they found someone better? It has happened to me too. Move on and jump back in the water. Give it a chance and it will happen for you!
lawson

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#324
Oct 31, 2009
 
hello my name is dr gloria lawson,i need a caring man to take to and fall in love with any suitor can contact me on drkumalo86@yahoo.com
RGA

Bernardsville, NJ

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#325
Nov 5, 2009
 
Dee: Thank you. I just got an email from this guy. If you hadn't posted...I may have fallen for it. Have a good day
Shar

Albany, NY

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#326
Nov 6, 2009
 
I want to also thank you Dee. I've been speaking with this scammer for a couple of weeks now and everything seemed to be going too fast. I have great intuition and decided to dig a little deeper and found your comments. Thanks
RGA

Morristown, NJ

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#327
Nov 7, 2009
 
By the way, the online screen name of the guy is now changed to deservedlove. Clearly, he just changed his profile and continued his scam. I have reported to match.com , but not sure they can or will do anything.
cantstandem

Los Angeles, CA

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#328
Nov 12, 2009
 
Noy wrote:
Hey guys, if u do not want to be a victim of such scam thing... look in the philippines, they are nice..
i got one. shes gorgeous
The women in the philippines are patient and are willing to scam you and be nice for AMERICAN CITIZENSHIP. These women live this way. They dont love you but exchange the loving facad for security and citizenship. So if you dont mind her not really loving you for yourself and you dont mind knowing she is doing it for citizenship and security then go for it. She is nice but still playing you ...they would rather play you than live in philipines with poor prospects. To some guys this is an even exchange...they know the score but are in denial...it just works out that way...
James

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#329
Nov 13, 2009
 
There is this woman she says her name is cynthia .. she is from match ... she claims she is wealthy and the next thing she ask you for is money .. she is very good at this .. pls don fall for this ..
pat

Seymour, TN

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Nov 13, 2009
 

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i have been talking to the same guy this week. I am always curious about these people. I google his name because he sounded too good to be true. And come to find out I was right. Be Careful
Dee wrote:
on Match.com , a scammer goes by the name heart_lovinnn_un, he is an imposter claims he lives in Warren, NJ. Goes by the name John Truglio. Tells me he is an architect and building contractor, widower, has 10year old girl. French accent. says he is 1/2 Italian and grew up in France. Run in the other direction as fast as you can. I reported him twice to Match, but his profile is back up. FBI has been contacted. It just isn't a safe world.I contacted the reall John Truglio who tells me that another Mach subscriber called him a whle ago with the same story. Scammers are relentless
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