Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?

Genevieve11 wrote:

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How do you know that the person who posted was definitively white though? You definitely have some beef with white people, specifically Brits. I can see why though, you're probably hurt about the things they did to the people of India and you think the hate is spreading into this forum. There are good women who care about indian men. They can be indian women or other races of women. I stated my position earlier about my experience with Indian men and culture, and chose to constructively criticize the culture and not attack it from a racist standpoint or declare that i'm never going to talk to another indian again. In fact, i did have an indian bf for 3 yrs in college, so please take criticism with grace. You are not doing that, because you lump all critics into one box...the box of the "former British oppressor". Learn to distinguish plz!

well that may be well
but youre lumping all indians too, and expecting too much
so be gone !
and besides you spanish nutters are so defensive, you dont even let people criticize you... pathetic sp ikss

voices of reason wrote:

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but youre lumping all indians too, and expecting too much
so be gone !

I have high standards, yes but I do not expect too much. You will get a girl at the bottom of the barrel with low self esteem if you continue with those beliefs. She will be a woman that will take and do anything. You will get a whore.

Indians r peydaishi gandu wrote:

Yup!! And these indian gandus are also very cowardly and hypocritical.
They diss all other races and cultures, yet don't even have the slightest reservation about flooding into other countries, like a deluge of vermin.

So true. The attitude/behavior and modus-operandi of all these so-called "righteous" Indians on this thread are the reasons why people of other race/nationality think otherwise about all Indians. These kind of "righteous" Indians give a bad name to all Indians, yet they don't realize it. Rather than accepting their shortcomings and improving things in their personality/attitude/character and inside of them, they just love going on a war to justify themselves and prove themselves right. So sad....

One thing I always wonder to- why all these so "righteous" Indians go and live in other countries amongst those people whom they don't like or don't like their life-style?? I mean, if on one side we are so wrong, racist, prejudicial, dumb, not so good looking, etc, etc, but on the other hand these goody Indians so desperately want to live between us??? Just don't get it. Why don't these people understand that they do lack personality, character and charm compared to other races; otherwise OP had not posted his concerns on this thread?

if you dont like us Indian men thats fine

please leave us alone, have the courtesy of not mocking us at least

SAM wrote:

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One thing I always wonder to- why all these so "righteous" Indians go and live in other countries amongst those people whom they don't like or don't like their life-style?? I mean, if on one side we are so wrong, racist, prejudicial, dumb, not so good looking, etc, etc, but on the other hand these goody Indians so desperately want to live between us??? Just don't get it.

I agree with this one!

voices of reason wrote:

if you dont like us Indian men thats fine
please leave us alone, have the courtesy of not mocking us at least

Then get all your ugly, repulsive, dishonest, hypocrite faces outta all foreign countries and scat back to slumdog land.

When nobody has to bear the sight of your hideous and smelly mugshots. Everybody will stop talking about you.

Indians r peydaishi gandu wrote:

<quoted text>Then get all your ugly, repulsive, dishonest, hypocrite faces outta all foreign countries and scat back to slumdog land.
When nobody has to bear the sight of your hideous and smelly mugshots. Everybody will stop talking about you.

I admit 'voice of reason' is just a spitefu/hateful Indian that justifies the dislike the Indians receive, well too a certain extent but what's wrong with you! I've been reading your comments and you have a full on attack on all Indians when the situation seems just, as in the set-up that 'voice of reason' created. You're dirty snake and don't use snake to retaliate, I know it's a common animal of India.'voice of reason' is ironically beyond reason, yet you are an opportune racist with no class or decorum.

in womens' minds if you are handsome they will throw themselves at you, if you are not hot then how dare you to even to look at them.(its like if you are hot then its flirting, if not its sexual harrasement) But if you roll up in a 150K plus car they will be looking at you. Blacks dealt with it until the 60s. Chinese been and still is dealing with it since the 70s and 80s until now, its just your turn that's all. The hating for middle eastern man has just started. So are you handsome or rich??

mazdized wrote:

in womens' minds if you are handsome they will throw themselves at you, if you are not hot then how dare you to even to look at them.(its like if you are hot then its flirting, if not its sexual harrasement) But if you roll up in a 150K plus car they will be looking at you. Blacks dealt with it until the 60s. Chinese been and still is dealing with it since the 70s and 80s until now, its just your turn that's all. The hating for middle eastern man has just started. So are you handsome or rich??

hes right

All it takes is ONE role model to emerge in Movies or Music to break through

Like it or not, but the majority of people are idiots. They bbase their world on whats on tv and what they hear on the radio

Not everyone is going to be able to travel and really become educated/open minded

Michael Jackson broke through for blacks

Bruce Lee for Chinese

Now Indians need a hero for westerners to admire

India is not homogeneous country and there are many races and cultures and languages. Many Indian students coming to USA these days are born and grown up in villages and where they have less freedom to things such as dating before marriage. Once they are in USA or any other foreign country for that matter they are terribly attracted to the fact of getting laid and they think bars and clubs are the place for this.

But things wont change in coming 10 year or so.. Those stupid Indians have ruined my chances of finding a mate in a country I live, perhaps I will have to go back to India to find a girl as all the girls in America have a grudge against my Identity

voices of reason wrote:

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hes right
All it takes is ONE role model to emerge in Movies or Music to break through
Like it or not, but the majority of people are idiots. They bbase their world on whats on tv and what they hear on the radio
Not everyone is going to be able to travel and really become educated/open minded
Michael Jackson broke through for blacks
Bruce Lee for Chinese
Now Indians need a hero for westerners to admire

You say you don't like whites, then why the hell are you hoping and waiting for whites to admire your kind?

SAM wrote:

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So true. The attitude/behavior and modus-operandi of all these so-called "righteous" Indians on this thread are the reasons why people of other race/nationality think otherwise about all Indians. These kind of "righteous" Indians give a bad name to all Indians, yet they don't realize it. Rather than accepting their shortcomings and improving things in their personality/attitude/character and inside of them, they just love going on a war to justify themselves and prove themselves right. So sad....
One thing I always wonder to- why all these so "righteous" Indians go and live in other countries amongst those people whom they don't like or don't like their life-style?? I mean, if on one side we are so wrong, racist, prejudicial, dumb, not so good looking, etc, etc, but on the other hand these goody Indians so desperately want to live between us??? Just don't get it. Why don't these people understand that they do lack personality, character and charm compared to other races; otherwise OP had not posted his concerns on this thread?

Buddy, you have to realise and accept that Indians are culturally hardwired to be dishonest and hypocrite, Like our friend VOR.

Jhoot bolna aur dhookaybaazi toh sub-culture jaisa hai, mainstream
desi culture kay saat.

Anonymous1 wrote:

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I admit 'voice of reason' is just a spitefu/hateful Indian that justifies the dislike the Indians receive, well too a certain extent but what's wrong with you! I've been reading your comments and you have a full on attack on all Indians when the situation seems just, as in the set-up that 'voice of reason' created. You're dirty snake and don't use snake to retaliate, I know it's a common animal of India.'voice of reason' is ironically beyond reason, yet you are an opportune racist with no class or decorum.

Munna!!

My problem is with these jackass hypocrite creeps like VOR. Who live in foreign countries. But aggressively try to project india and indianess on the people in whose countries they live in.

Yet they refuse to go and live in india. They never practise what they preach. I hate two faced hypocrites. And unfortunately indians have no shortage of these kind of characters.

I agree with you, you are the product of the land you live in, you may inherit Indian blood but you as a person embody the environment you live and exist within.

India wrote:

But things wont change in coming 10 year or so.. Those stupid Indians have ruined my chances of finding a mate in a country I live, perhaps I will have to go back to India to find a girl as all the girls in America have a grudge against my Identity

dude...you live in Lubbock, TX....that's HELLA country what do you expect lol and TX isn't THAT diverse...not like NY or LA, so they're probably a bit culturally in fear of you.

Indians r peydaishi gandu wrote:

<quoted text>Munna!!
My problem is with these jackass hypocrite creeps like VOR. Who live in foreign countries. But aggressively try to project india and indianess on the people in whose countries they live in.
Yet they refuse to go and live in india. They never practise what they preach. I hate two faced hypocrites. And unfortunately indians have no shortage of these kind of characters.

RIGHT?!

Hey Genevieve, since I added a 1 at the end of anonymous you've not really acknowledged me, I am still anonymous but now with a 1 at the end, lol. I am the anonymous 1.
Anyway I know this is going to sound bad but this is my way of working out if someone is racist- ask yourself if you at any point have been physically attracted to a person of different colour, if yes and you have not hated yourself or regretted the idea after then you are not racist other wise -_- go to school and take a couple of history lessons better yet I'll help you.

Lesson 1- thousands and thousands of years ago, after the dinosaurs of course (around the time of ice ages). As ice trapped water in Glaciers, sea level fell opening up land bridges. These land bridges allowed early man to migrate away from AFRICA colonise the whole world. However, after the ice age, as ice melted back into water and the sea level once again rose, the land bridges disappeared. This isolated the different groups of humans. Those in the hotter regions developed a pigment called melanin. Let me simplify this-
Africa- very hot-people have lots of melanin- dark skin colour
Indian sub continent- hot- people have melanin- brown skin
Europe-cold-no or very little melanin- White, also blonde hair is caused by a lack of pigmentation.
That should help get you started, also note that know race is pure- rape and sex between slaves and locals means that even someone who is White has a coloured ancestor somewhere along the lines.

2. I'll keep this short, culture practices were IN PART (note the emphasis) designed to appease the gods with the hope of a fertile harvest, so to deny your culture is to deny the traditions that supposedly brought you're people a fertile harvest, is it wrong to deny this- that is up to the individual. Are we all the same? Yes, should we care what language one person speak? No, should we pride our culture to the point where another culture is wrong? No, should we open our minds to accept new ideas, especially the ones held by the countries we live in? Yes

I'm tired so that was a little disjointed

oh come on

people arent denied dates because of their race

they may have to try harder, but it shouldnt be a roadblock

thats pathetic lol

voices of reason wrote:

oh come on
people arent denied dates because of their race
they may have to try harder, but it shouldnt be a roadblock
thats pathetic lol

yeah but people are damn sure denied marriage and kids lol