Why do most girls dislike Indian guys?

Ok I'm an indian guy..born in india..I think tht most indian guys r lame myself..pervs..horny bastards..its cos of the lack of sex in the lives due to girls being reserved n shit..But come to bombay..southh bombay I'm frm here n cn speak fr ppl frm here..we r more like americans thn other indians..yes I like to stay neat n clean times I shower 3 times day ..wierd shring tht but had to .. I love thhe western culture..but I love indian culture too..americans r more money minded..while indians r attched to fmilies..not me..I'm usually running outta the house to drink n chill with friends..

Seriously ' indian pedaishi gandu'..chillout..U can't hate a whole race cos of a few ppl out there who didn't seem ok to you..I'm indian but I'm not offended with wht u hve to say..its k..its ur opinion..just wish u didn't feel thhis way.. Tc

N yes Ppl from every culture r good looking..n thhere r bad too yes..now u americans like the wy ur own kind look..its the same way fr us indians..n chinese..but it doesn't mean there's a barrier of racist feelings..I love every kind of person In this world!!but yes majority indians really gotta learn how to wear decent clothes n talk proper n look normal..n. Not be soo cocky..its true..I cnt help it..I see ppl here n say it..lol

One more thing..not all indians cn be classified into typical indian category..fr exmple..most ppl I knw don't wnt to get mrried unless they actually fall in love..my parents don't even thhink bout..I'm born here..spent 20 yrs of my life here..I wish to see the world..life is too short..I hope I don't end up a victim of this rcist world..ciao ppl..enuffff said

Indians r peydaishi gandu wrote:

<quoted text>So who wants to date bhungis i.e. Indians anyways?

ur grandpa

Anto James wrote:

<quoted text>ur grandpa

cuts you off..never interfere to Anto James comment u stuphid pakistani

anto james..lol..

I was in a relationship with an east Indian guy for 3 yrs. I know not all guys are like this but he wouldn't introduce me to his family as they wanted him with an Indian and not a white girl, or so he said. We even got engaged and still... It broke my heart.

But amanda..he didint leave u still right?..he probably didn't want u to face the awkward comments from his parents since hhe comes from such an orthodox fmly...I cnt spk fr him so I'll shut up nw..but I'm srry fr wt hppend with you..):

A real man is strong enough to proudly introduce his lover to the people he loves--including and ESPECIALLY his own family members. He is not a coward.

A real man is not so desperate for his parent's approval that he would compromise the integrity of his own intimate relationships by hiding his woman away from his family. That's just sad.

A real man respects his woman's strength and is confident that she is strong enough to withstand the conflict of meeting his parents, even if they are prejudiced against her due to her race.

Bottom line, a real man knows who he is, what he wants, and respects his woman enough to introduce her to the family, regardless if they approve of her race or not.

Amanda, this boy's behavior is not a good sign... find a man who treats you with the respect you deserve.

Amanda wrote:

I was in a relationship with an east Indian guy for 3 yrs. I know not all guys are like this but he wouldn't introduce me to his family as they wanted him with an Indian and not a white girl, or so he said. We even got engaged and still... It broke my heart.

This is becoming a pretty prominent storyline

My suggestion to white women dating Indian men FROM India is to ask them on the FIRST day - what the situation is regarding parents and interracial marriage

This will be beneficial to all parties involved

One swift question folks

Lee wrote:

A real man is strong enough to proudly introduce his lover to the people he loves--including and ESPECIALLY his own family members. He is not a coward.
A real man is not so desperate for his parent's approval that he would compromise the integrity of his own intimate relationships by hiding his woman away from his family. That's just sad.
A real man respects his woman's strength and is confident that she is strong enough to withstand the conflict of meeting his parents, even if they are prejudiced against her due to her race.
Bottom line, a real man knows who he is, what he wants, and respects his woman enough to introduce her to the family, regardless if they approve of her race or not.
Amanda, this boy's behavior is not a good sign... find a man who treats you with the respect you deserve.

wow you seem to have a strong idea what a real man is. I bet you are not nearly one yourself

Its not about Indian men wanting approval of their parents for the shit of it...

Its about paying your parents what is due in part...

THink about it... Indian migrants to western nation usually SACRIFICE everything to get there and make a go of it.

So it is natural for the parents to expect from their kids:

A place to live in old age
Spending money
An input to grandkids education

That is not too much to ask I think. Its far better than tossing your own folks into a retirement home once they're too boring for you

Pathetic westerners cant even see this lol

Hey mofo that isnt true -.-

voice of reason wrote:

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wow you seem to have a strong idea what a real man is. I bet you are not nearly one yourself

You are absolutely right. I'm am not nearly a man....at all. In fact, I am a woman. And coming from someone who would label Westerners as "pathetic," I will take this as a compliment. Thank you.

Also, thank you for the laugh, so-called "voice of reason." Judging by your screen name (which is hilariously ironic btw), you also seem to have some strong ideas yourself... hmm... are we compensating for something?

I will say, also, that you are correct to announce that I have a strong idea of what a real man is. Yes I do. And judging by your comments, I would deduce that you yourself are in dire need growing up and becoming one yourself.

And before anyone spews any misogynistic, racist hatred at me, I say this to you... grow up.

I agree with lee..its pathetic to get into a relationship if ur not ready to commit n r gnna be a wuss n listen to wtv parents say without standing up fr ur girl

Lee wrote:

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You are absolutely right. I'm am not nearly a man....at all. In fact, I am a woman. And coming from someone who would label Westerners as "pathetic," I will take this as a compliment. Thank you.
Also, thank you for the laugh, so-called "voice of reason." Judging by your screen name (which is hilariously ironic btw), you also seem to have some strong ideas yourself... hmm... are we compensating for something?
I will say, also, that you are correct to announce that I have a strong idea of what a real man is. Yes I do. And judging by your comments, I would deduce that you yourself are in dire need growing up and becoming one yourself.
And before anyone spews any misogynistic, racist hatred at me, I say this to you... grow up.

oh you;re just a bored little bag lady who wants to bag on indians then ?

lol, Im so sick of you borderline retards judging Indians etc. Americans are the dumbest, silliest folks on Earth - as dumb as Arsies...

Why dont you go choke on a hot dog or sumthn.

silly spinster

indiiiii wrote:

I agree with lee..its pathetic to get into a relationship if ur not ready to commit n r gnna be a wuss n listen to wtv parents say without standing up fr ur girl

yeah but what theyre saying is that this problem of Non Commitment is Exclusive to Indian men

LOL - thats just wrong... In fact Indian men are closer to wanting to marry too early compared to westerners

konrad wrote:

like an indian man is suppose to look like an uneducated slave....screw that...i know im gonna be ballin n rich n conquer this world because thats what we men do. we're suppose to triumph n conquer. dont hate the player, hate the game.

sad but true some Indian guys are really crazy

voice of reason wrote:

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Im so sick of you borderline retards judging Indians etc. Americans are the dumbest, silliest folks on Earth - as dumb as Arsies...
Why dont you go choke on a hot dog or sumthn.
silly spinster

Calling Americans the "dumbest, silliest folks on Earth" is a pretty ignorant thing to say coming from someone who is from a developing country...

1 in 4 people in India are illiterate, compared to 1 in 100 in America.

And poverty? 42% of Indians fall below the international poverty line. USA? Less than half that percentage. You see?

So before insulting Americans as the "dumbest people on Earth," you should be more careful to consider the facts first.

P.S. And calling Americans "borderline retards" only denigrates you to a lower stature than you already are. Congratulations. You just made a complete idiot of yourself.

voice of reason wrote:

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wow you seem to have a strong idea what a real man is. I bet you are not nearly one yourself
Its not about Indian men wanting approval of their parents for the shit of it...
Its about paying your parents what is due in part...
THink about it... Indian migrants to western nation usually SACRIFICE everything to get there and make a go of it.
So it is natural for the parents to expect from their kids:
A place to live in old age
Spending money
An input to grandkids education
That is not too much to ask I think. Its far better than tossing your own folks into a retirement home once they're too boring for you
Pathetic westerners cant even see this lol

Look whos talking.

As if a slimy little rodent like yourself, pretending to be 10 feet tall from behind his computer, could actually size up to be a man in real life.

LOL!!