Dating European women over American women

lived in both US and EU wrote:

The problem that males have with American women is that American women expect you to be men and women in many other cultures allow you to remain boys.

I think the problem with North American women is they do nothing to please a man because there is not respect for him or themselves. They were empowered with stupid laws now abuse them and they just are not desirable even if they are attractive it stops soon as they speak. I was just in Czech wow pretty strong intelligent fun so different from the lazy miserable north american fool. Also control freaks who really cannot do as much as they claim and do not take there place as a dependent. Always looking for something better loyalties to there girl freinds just idiots imature idiots. Not even the strenght to bring up a proper family who wants that?

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Burgundy wrote:

American Women, There are many characteristics of American women that made them very desirable for men.

"Made them" as in past tense?

I hate to generalize but unfortunately alot of what has been said here about American women is true for the majority of them.

With that being said a big reason why they act the way they do is because men let them get away with it. Any average looking woman who happens to not be overweight is going to be constantly hounded by guys, both young and old trying to date and sex her. A hot woman in the U.S. is more famous than a rockstar. Look at a typical facebook profile with an attractive woman and all you'll see are comment after comment of men telling her how beautiful and gorgeous she is.

Put a picture of some generic cute girl on an online dating website with little to no description in the profile and you will get bombarded with messages from 100+ guys.

Most women can literally have their entire nights out (cover, drinks, dinner) financed by desperate men begging for a chance to sniff their crotch.

Literally if you're a somewhat attractive woman here in the U.S. you get treated like some sort of celebrity complete with groupies, fans, men who fight to be in your "inner circle", and stalkers. Any wonder why none of them bother to develop a personality or learn to empathize with others when so many men are willing to worship the ground they walk on?

The U.S.A., like Sweden, is a Feminist Tyrannical State. Women in Feminist Tyrannical States like weak base men and ally themselves with them socially, politically, and culturally. The U.S.A. is stereotyped as having overbearing gender feminist women and weak base men. In other cultures, women like strong men. The preferences, in appearance, intellect, character, and social characteristics that women have in men vary widely amongst cultures and nations. Many American men state that they find that foreign women are much more pleasant, egalitarian, less materialistic, and sexually liberated than American women. The sexist and oppressive nature of the Feminist Tyrannical State in the U.S.A. is not over stated! It is dramatically understated! Men will notice the dramatic difference and the much greater respect and status they have as individuals and as men when they travel overseas.

it has been my experience, that european women treat men better, that is to say more like equals. I have dated both american and russian women, and it is not a surprise that I married a ukrainian. Here are some things I've been through
1. I have been abused by the system, women in america claimed sexual harassment because I expressed an interest.(it was thrown out, I was lucky) I have been conditioned to not even speak to an american woman until she talks to me.

2. Tried dating sites, the profiles and expectations were way over the top. "you must make 6 figures" is a real quote.

3. American women say that they want a nice guy, but they are not attracted to one. They ALWAYS go for the bad boy. Yes, they like a confident man. When I fixed this in my life, I was able to date american women, but they quickly lose interest in a guy that treats them well, and I do not mean 'ass kissing'

4. the weight issue. I have know plenty of girls in the states who ballooned through the years. not a one has done anything to stay fit.(I do stay fit)

5. In contrast, just visiting eastern europe, and not saying a word, women approached me! I learned russian and know she said "you have beautiful eyes" she was wonderful and a great kisser.

6. I wanted a wife, I did not plan on but did have sex before marriage. I regret doing that, I thought it was what I wanted... but I really needed more. My wife and I did wait, and it made things so much better.

Your momma wrote:

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Wow you obviously have deep rooted American woman/momma issues, somebody wasn't bf or held enough.
But sheesh tone it down tiger we all collectively give u A big American momma hug, that u so desperately need.
The flip side is European woman are more complacent and docile to their partners, yuck no thanks

I disagree that European woman are more complacent, in America the woman says "he will come to me" in many places in Eastern Europe, all you have to do is look and smile and they will go to you... if they have any interest. I am married to a Ukrainian, and she is NOT docile. Just go there and see for yourself

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JenMcree wrote:

I am an American women living in Sydney, Australia.
Thank you for posting your comment, I don't agree 100% with everything you wrote but I agree with almost all of it.
I was born in Texas, but I have lived in London, UK and now live in Sydney, Australia.
Before I left the US the items that you mentioned above where the norm... I can say that I did those things as well but was not really by choice, it was culture, it was what was expected from a women in the US.
Now that I have left the US I am free to think my own way, I am free to be my self instead of following a culture based on very old believes that are still the norm and the expectation.
A few years ago I might have taken this comment as an insult... but I know better.
I will keep an eye on this topic, I am also curious to know.

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I am Italian and I dated an American boy for 2 years. We lived together in the Netherlands and then in Italy, and for a short period in America.
I can definitely feel a huge difference between our cultures.
I have been offended a lot by this guy because in his opinion I had too many ex boyfriends, and I felt heavily judged and charged for who I am and how I think.

And the most funny thing, was that he still wanted to marry me even if he had such a low opinion of me....

Crazy ...!!!

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I am afraid I will have to disagree with you on this as there are women who are good and bad in every country of the world .A lot of the time its how you treat them that makes the difference, show them love and they will respond in kind , show them disrespect and they will not respect you.
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tmd4mtd wrote:

I read your comments about European and American women and I am very much disagree with you. I am from Ukraine and I am living here in the US for 11 years. My observation for 11 years living in the US is different then what you wrote..
TMD

My observations of you, after reading several of your writings, are simple. You are delusional and snobbish.

tmd4mtd wrote:

In my opinion, a person who posted this article does not know anything about European women, however he is still writing it anyway. I was travel for a long time around Europe and has MBA in intercultural communication. Just for your surprise- Most European women are Family oriented and group oriented people. I am European person myself, and living here in the US for 12 years. Truly I notice how American women so much into casual sex and are having so many weird relationships MUCH MORE then European women especially in Washington state Seattle aria. Also I noted that American men are so much disrespectful to women, very chip, bossy, controlling and very abusive and not shy to ask women to pay for her own dinner. Also American men are not afraid to ask for sex right after meeting, which is not acceptable in Europe. Also I see men are so much insecure here what they are prefer date several women in same time just n case if some one will live him or so. On the tope of it American men are rude and do not have any sophistication what so ever. Marriages are mostly very sick relations between couples and parents with children.
I think all of this because American women let these men treat them in this disrespectful way and for these men it is norm to act like they are acting.
I been married to American men and date several, I come to conclusion what the best way is to avoid American in every way.

Move... and stop looking for American men on Match . com if you truly feel this way. You're jaded and damaged goods. Go back home...

i will have to tell you this buddy. im a european man living in the us for years and i have to say that this is by far the worst dating scene i have ever experienced in my life. women tend to be stuck up, gold-diggers as well as snobby and hard to approach. there is a luck of qualities, values and family morals in the culture.

I have been on the dating scene in Los Angeles and the areas around for years now and i have never seen such a hard to date culture and lifestyle. Unless you dress in a 500 suit, drive a nice car, spend money and be good looking, you have no chance of going on a date. There is luck of quality, luck of value in women of the West Coast and probably the whole country in general. On top of that they will play games with you. A lot of women i met, they will give you their phone number, call them the first time while being nice and polite to them and then they will either dont answer/call back or chat with you once and then dont bother to take any other calls of yours. I am turning my attention to women from the east coast probably as i have a friend who had suggested it and i also recommend it 

blacklabel wrote:

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There is a thing called living on love,something that American women has lost over the years. Living on love is what got my grandparents through hard times years ago. Money did not mean a damn thing to them, it was the simple things in life, something American women today no nothing about! European & Asian women still have that simplicity & still believe that love is still greater than all money & material things. With the attitude like yours no wonder why our country has done gone all to crap.

I've met an American girl on the internet and I think I am falling in love with her. She is kind, open and honest. It seems an irony that I have searched all my life for a woman like this and then I meet one who is over three thousand miles away.

I must say from my own personal experience over the last two months that I've been dating a girl from Lithuania. And it has been awesome! European women are very different in my opinion from American women. This girl is independent, appreciative of the small things, very frugal, more self confident, not self conscience about every little detail, not worrying about what everone else thinks about her, more open and honest and not sugar coating things. There is a difference for sure, not to say that all American women are bad. But this is refreshing compared to the last 6 women I've dated and the one I was married to for 8 years! I'd be hard pressed to date a person from here knowing what I know now.

Look I dated a German girl from Berlin for over a year, I live in St. Louis, she lived in Berlin.... she was the sweetest, nicest person I have ever met.... she is nothing like any American girl and neither were any of her friends. Europeans are DEFINITELY different than Americans period. I would almost never date an American girl again... I dont find an interest in talking about Jessica Simpson and What she bought at the mall, no substance.... this can't be said for all American women.... But I have over 800 friends on my Facebook 70% which are females, and out of all of them, I have yet to have on actual intelligent conversation like I did with the European girls I have encountered....