why do white men act like they don't like black women?

It seems to me that white men act like they dont like black women then date them in their thirties. Is it because they don't care about appearances by then??

If Allah forbids it, then thou shalt savor it.

I don't know what your talking about. I love all women, am white and as specially am attracted to the sisters for a number of reasons. I also have been for as long as i can remember. 35 now and i don;t see that love going away until I'm dead.

Im a white guy, and my white friends date black and white girls, but they dont date any girl who acts "gangsta". No one is really interested in the ghetto attitude, whether it be from a black girl or a white girl.
So if they are intelligent and can have a normal conversation thats not about their nails, their cell phones or their "baby's daddy", then it doesnt matter what color they are.

jadeblue wrote:

I've heard that too, yes.
I sometimes talk about my nails, despite the fact that I am white as the very snow. LOL

We all talk about our nails,hair etc... that's women :-) I can hold a conversation outside of my nails

Are you all blind,god are they UGLY

The people that talk all the trash never show their god aweful faces... every race has ugly

Ugh

LOL to the person that said black females are ugly. I see alot of ugly ass white people on the daily!! And spanish, chinese, indian... Ugly don't discriminate, unlike you!!

I don't know why this is such a issue I think if u find someone thats good to you color or weight shouldn't matter .

Many men have told me some reasons why, I'm not trying to be a jerk but you must be young

What are the reasons.. just wondering.

This is too funny. I have dated white guys since I was 19 years old. I'm black, not at all skinny, wear my hair in locs. Just depends where you go to hang out, how intelligent the people are, I think.

Tobi wrote:

This is too funny. I have dated white guys since I was 19 years old. I'm black, not at all skinny, wear my hair in locs. Just depends where you go to hang out, how intelligent the people are, I think.

Passion is blind everywhere kiddo.Intelligence has nothing to do with it.

spartan wrote:

<quoted text>Passion is blind everywhere kiddo.Intelligence has nothing to do with it.

I beg to differ. In MY experience, it has been all about the intelligence. The more intelligent, the more open to experience. That's why most prejudiced people are not as intelligent, no matter about any schooling they may have gotten through, just their natural intelligence.

Because its not an act,stay within ur race.I know if I'm gettin beat up in my city by blacks and a white guy will help me,if a black walked by he"d keep goin

I like black women and always have (except ones with very, very short hair- but I don't like white women with really short hair either lol). I think some white dudes are afraid of black chicks though. I lived in JP right in jackson sq for like 10 yrs back in the 90's when no white ppl were there thou, not even takin the train during the daytime hahaa so I'm really used to being around a lot of black women..

White men act like they find black women unattractive because they legitimately find them unattractive. The real question is why do black men act like they find black women attractive? They always go out of their way to point out how attractive black women are, yet they never actually go after them, even when black women blaintently hit on them. Every one of my black friends has at one point admitted, with much distress, that they just don't find black women attractive at all. Though I should point out that all of my black friends are actual African immigrants, not the descendants of slaves.

jadeblue wrote:

I think it's because white women diet a lot when they're younger and there is a lot of pressure from white guys for white women to be really thin. It's a status thing to be really thin if you are a white woman. This is different in other cultures.
By the 30's a lot of white women gain weight, and the black women are probably hotter anyway, so they start dating them then.
This is just my opinion.

I think ur crazy for sayin that and yes am late this page com from somthink idk well am a black girl and and sure about this if a men will love me when am skinny then why not when am fat thats not love and i don't care if a black men or white men love white women i love myself so when i gain 80 pounds it will still be like that but it makes me sad to think about race i love every the way they are.

I am a beautiful black woman and i live in Utah ...the black men here are horrendous to put it mildly. I do not like ebonics or "gangsta" clothing/attitude or being called a bitch the black men here seem to fancy this lifestyle possibly in protest to the affluent/majority white culture here...anyway I like white men, I like ALL men, but white men are on my radar currently...but few ask me out(though they check me out ALOT) and those that do just want sex or are not my type...UGH! I am beginning to think that geographically it is not in the cards...