Sunny

UK

#1153 May 25, 2011
Thanx gold u have give me good suggestions tomorrow i ll discuss for haircut wid my parents.if they ll not agree then i ll go 2 barber for my haircut without their permission

Since: May 11

Location hidden

#1154 May 25, 2011
Sunny wrote:
My name is sunny and i am sikh guy .i want my butt lenght hair cut to a normal length(boy cut).BUt it is very difficult for me 2 tell my parents that i want my haircut.i feel my long hair as burden and i feel difficult to comb them and get up early in the morning 2 make top knot and 2 fix my beard.i know if i cut my hair i will b scolded and kicked out of house.i am very much frustrated wid my hair.i want 2 less my burden and get free.more over i also want 2 experience sitting on barber chair and feeling of scissors in my hair.please tell me gold that how should i perform this process.
Firstly how old are you? Since you mentioned combing your beard i assume your at least 18. And since you 18 you have the right to make your own decisions and face the consequences of those decisions. What im trying to say is, if you decide to cut your hair you have to decide if the outcome is worth it. you have to assume the worst case scenario. Say you do get kicked out, is that worth the hair cut? To me it's worth a thousand fold thats why i decided to go for. It all depends on how much it means to you. good luck man and remember god loves you regardless.
Gold

Vernon, Canada

#1155 May 26, 2011
Sunny wrote:
Thanx gold u have give me good suggestions tomorrow i ll discuss for haircut wid my parents.if they ll not agree then i ll go 2 barber for my haircut without their permission
Sunny it is nice to have taken the suggestions in a positive manner.
Take care and be courageous to go in for something in which you believe. It will make you feel elated. and also as Prabhjot pannu has posted you are grown up to take a decision on issues like haircut. It is not a question of life and death. And it is not something on which your life depends. If it does not work out - WHICH I SERIOUSLY DOUBT-(YOU WILL LOVE THE FREEDOM AND SHORT HAIR EXPERIENCE)- you can grow it back. This is a reason to win over your parents too.
Good Luck and congrats in advance for the new Sunny!
Sunny

UK

#1156 May 26, 2011
My friend gold i am not getting courage 2 tell my parents 4 haircut but i want it .i want change in my personality.i am bored wid my old image.today i wake up and decided 2 tell my parents 4 haircut but i cant.AS im college boy i want some change.i go to clg wid same face .my friends cum wid new hairstyles and i also want 2 try them
Gold

Vernon, Canada

#1157 May 26, 2011
Sunny wrote:
My friend gold i am not getting courage 2 tell my parents 4 haircut but i want it .i want change in my personality.i am bored wid my old image.today i wake up and decided 2 tell my parents 4 haircut but i cant.AS im college boy i want some change.i go to clg wid same face .my friends cum wid new hairstyles and i also want 2 try them
Do not feel panicky. It will take some time. Just keep dropping hints and do not rush. Once you r onto the job they are intelligent to understand. Maybe u can wait till u plan out a trip or something with ur friends or college group. it is easier to get to a barber shop then for a clean cut - as the area is not known and the barber will not object too. But be careful to first fix an appointment with the barber earlier so that he makes up his mind. Sometimes they do not want to cut the hair first as they fear some problem by radicals. So as i suggested, cut it somewhat short and then go to the barber. Be patient and the future is OK. After the first cut it is all fun and u will be accepted by all ur friends - boys and girls. U may also treat ur friends if they help u out and also b'cos u have freedom. U can confide in a close friend and go with him for moral support. be courageous once u have decided that it is bothering u. Best of opportunity, Sunny
Sunny

Europe

#1158 May 26, 2011
Ok my friend gold i am cutting my half of butt length hair .i will do as u have told me.As i have started the job for cutting my hair i ll b succeed.today i tied turban i get headache, ears paining.whole day i feel as burden and my day was so much bad as i was in distress.ok thanx gold for giving me courage again.ok till then goodbye.
Gold

Vernon, Canada

#1159 May 26, 2011
Sunny wrote:
Ok my friend gold i am cutting my half of butt length hair .i will do as u have told me.As i have started the job for cutting my hair i ll b succeed.today i tied turban i get headache, ears paining.whole day i feel as burden and my day was so much bad as i was in distress.ok thanx gold for giving me courage again.ok till then goodbye.
Yes try and cut the length so that you can then have less weight on your head. Getting that done is half the job done. You will get courage later. then get it shorter after a few days and let the whole process take some time. Do not rush as you fear ur parents so much. it is a great change in ur situation. but since you feel strongly about it go ahead. Best wishes.

Since: May 11

Haymarket, VA

#1160 May 26, 2011
Sunny please dont cut ur kesh it's important to are religon Guru Gobind Singh Ji said not to cut are kesh its makes us stand out Why fit in if your born to stand out If ur turban is giving u "headaches" see a doctor and just tie a patka. I AM GROWING MY HAIR FOR THE FIRST TIME trust youw dont want cut hair i started to reasearch more bout kesh and now i know that as Sikhs we cannot cut are hair WE HAVE TO TURN THE TIDE TOO MANY SO CALLED SIKHS ARE CUTTING THEIR HAIR PEOPLE WHO SAY YOU SHOULD ARE LOSED LIKE GOLD ur parents care for u they only do whats best talk to them about this and ask them why b4 u think bout cutting your hairs ITS YOUR CHOICE NOT MINES PLEASE MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION

Since: May 11

Haymarket, VA

#1161 May 26, 2011
Gold wrote:
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Yes try and cut the length so that you can then have less weight on your head. Getting that done is half the job done. You will get courage later. then get it shorter after a few days and let the whole process take some time. Do not rush as you fear ur parents so much. it is a great change in ur situation. but since you feel strongly about it go ahead. Best wishes.
Gold are you really a Sikh if ur encouraging ppl to cut their hair plz respect Sikhs dont encourage ppl to do sins i have grown up with cut hair so i know how it is u truly are doing wrong

Since: May 11

Haymarket, VA

#1162 May 26, 2011
Also if you need inspiration their's a song by Sukshinder Shinda called Aeh Pagri Sardara research it on youtube it'll rlly inspire ppl who want to cut their Kesh also Pagri by Pammi Bai is good to
Sunny

UK

#1163 May 26, 2011
I have cut my half hair.now i am feeling little bit happy.by cutting them. my head has less burden than b4 .today i am washing my hair so that my hair get somewhat good.after a day i ll b in hair salon for my haircut.

Since: Apr 10

Location hidden

#1164 May 27, 2011
ToBeHonest wrote:
Think about it. if you were not born in your current religion would you be a Sikh? the answer is no. It's simple every view you have about religion, every restriction is implemented in your head. What one religion thinks to be ok another treats as a HUGE sin. if you were born into a family of Satan worshipers you would think of everyone else as your enemies. the fact of the matter is all these kids don't know how to think for them selves. their brainwashed. I was like them too. Im not saying Sikhism is bad or any other religion for that matter. Im saying that humanity has progressed far enough to leave the idea of religion behind. God doesn't care if you cut your hair, only your parents do.
actually god cannot reach people so he created parents... so indirectly parents should be respected more than god as they give us life.... so if they care about religion and hair... then this means god too cares because parents are the god. right ? so atleast we should be a good sikh for our parents ... THINK ABOUT IT !

Since: Apr 10

Location hidden

#1165 May 27, 2011
prabhjot pannu wrote:
o lol i didnt even get up to where dushyant started talking about the parents xD hahahaha my parents hate me and hope for me to die.. i never ever thought like my parents. im a lover, their haters.. they are amritari, and i am far of that stage of ever being there again. and so.. i once had thinking like that.. kinda.. but now i dont..
SHUDAAP ! ur parents love u a lot but they dont show..... no parent in this world can hate his own child .

Since: May 11

Location hidden

#1166 May 27, 2011
xxx190 wrote:
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actually god cannot reach people so he created parents... so indirectly parents should be respected more than god as they give us life.... so if they care about religion and hair... then this means god too cares because parents are the god. right ? so atleast we should be a good sikh for our parents ... THINK ABOUT IT !
if parents are god then what about the atheist parents? what about parents who sell their children, how about the ones who sexually abuse their kid? Dude all im saying saying is sometimes parents don't understand how we function within our society or how our social life works. We need to develop our own beliefs from our own life experiences. Why would god give us the right to think for our self just so he can tell us exactly how it should be. when it comes to beliefs there's no one way, otherwise ALOT of people are going to hell.
Sunny

Europe

#1167 May 28, 2011
Hey! My all friends i have decided for cutting of my left half hair.As i have cut my long length hair 2 half and i have also cut my beard today.As tomorrow is sunday and i am washing my hair and finally on mönday i will b in hair saloon 4 my haircut.i have also taken appointment in unisex saloon.they will ring me, and i will reach there.i am very much excited for my first experience on barber chair and the feeling of scissors in my hair,i was waiting for this from long time.now i am in this situation only b'coz of my friend gold who has inspire me what i want to do.i am waiting only 4 monday when i'll b having my new image.i am also taking one of my friend 2 accompny me.thanx 2 u gold and my other friends.till take care.
Gold

Vernon, Canada

#1168 May 28, 2011
Sunny wrote:
Hey! My all friends i have decided for cutting of my left half hair.As i have cut my long length hair 2 half and i have also cut my beard today.As tomorrow is sunday and i am washing my hair and finally on mönday i will b in hair saloon 4 my haircut.i have also taken appointment in unisex saloon.they will ring me, and i will reach there.i am very much excited for my first experience on barber chair and the feeling of scissors in my hair,i was waiting for this from long time.now i am in this situation only b'coz of my friend gold who has inspire me what i want to do.i am waiting only 4 monday when i'll b having my new image.i am also taking one of my friend 2 accompny me.thanx 2 u gold and my other friends.till take care.
Sunny you have started to speak up for yourself. I am not sure how your parents took to your trimming of beard as the cutting of hair can be concealed under the turban for some days. But it is a good arrangement that you have made at the Unisex saloon. It may feel a little nervous in the beginning as you have entrusted yourself to someone else - but believe me it is an experience to be enjoyed. The professionals at the saloon are very cooperative and will understand. As your post says Poland - you need not be afraid of anything. These barbers are doing haircuts everyday so let yourself loose in their care and just enjoy the transformation. They do not get emotional and just do as you suggest. RELAX and ENJOY!!!!!You may be apprehensive of the scissors above you head but let me assure you that the excitement is worth it. Just go ahead and ask the person with whom you have an appointment to shave the hairs at the nape and also around the ears. it is a refreshing feeling. You may have to go back to the saloon for a little styling after a few days and also a little regularly for you facial shaves. it will be sometime before you decide to keep a well trimmed beard or a shaved face. Also shaving every morning is a discipline you have to develop. And you friend who is to accompany you is going to be your support for long. If your parents get really wild at you you may consider staying at your friend's place for things to cool down.
Sunny

Europe

#1169 May 28, 2011
When i cut my beard,i feel very happy.after cutting my beard when i look into mirror,firstly i feel akward but much of my face was clean.i look smart and feel much better than before As i was free from it and all problems of tying and fixing it.when my parents saw my beard cut,they scolded me and ask 4 reason-i said that i dont want it and its my life,they said nothing after that.
Gold

Vernon, Canada

#1170 May 28, 2011
Sunny wrote:
When i cut my beard,i feel very happy.after cutting my beard when i look into mirror,firstly i feel akward but much of my face was clean.i look smart and feel much better than before As i was free from it and all problems of tying and fixing it.when my parents saw my beard cut,they scolded me and ask 4 reason-i said that i dont want it and its my life,they said nothing after that.
so you came over the first step. This is how it happens when you go ahead. And after your haircut you are going to come out gorgeous. And since you like it, it would be the best decision of your life. Best of Luck.
Sunny

Europe

#1171 May 28, 2011
Today i am washing my hair and tomorrow i'll b on barber chair and my hair ll b cut by the stylist.i am over excited when i suppose myself sitting on barber chair.it is my last day wid my long hair.tomorrow i'll b wid my new personality which i feel that will b good.after monday i will b more liked by my friends (boys&girls) who were always asking 4 my haircut when they go to saloon,now i can company my fnds.

Since: May 11

Location hidden

#1172 May 28, 2011
Sunny wrote:
Today i am washing my hair and tomorrow i'll b on barber chair and my hair ll b cut by the stylist.i am over excited when i suppose myself sitting on barber chair.it is my last day wid my long hair.tomorrow i'll b wid my new personality which i feel that will b good.after monday i will b more liked by my friends (boys&girls) who were always asking 4 my haircut when they go to saloon,now i can company my fnds.
what was ur parents reaction? and hey if its not too much to ask can u maybe upload a b4 and after pic. im curious to see how ur hairline turns out

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