American women suck

pmck wrote:

<quoted text> ...We occasionally socialize with an ex girlfriend of my husbands (her sister is married to his best friend). I felt a little awkward at first meeting, but didn't take long to figure out why it didn't work out, she's a flake...

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Cam wrote:

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Well your situation is not the same. Your man is not arbitrarily choosing to hang out with his ex and trying to force you to deal with it, you nimrod. Your mans ex lady is only around because his buddy is married to her sister. And neither of you two want her around.

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MaFitz wrote:

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...Well I can actually speak on this because it has happened. My husband started talking to his high school sweetheart, who was also his first love in everyway, about two years ago. When he was working a job down in Texas they got together for lunch.

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Cam wrote:

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American women find any man that uses logic a threat because they anti-logic and they want to sway everything in their favor.

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Cam wrote:

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It's more a matter of: if I am with you,I don't talk to MY exes, so why should you start? I know chicks wanna write new rules every week at 3pm but whats more important? An ex Eff buddy or your current flame? It's not that hard. She should make a choice. Either she wants to marry Waldo or she wants to show Javier her fu-fu.
If the guy had one or more current female friends that he's effed, then she would have an arguement but thats not the case here, and I hear terms like "well, circumstances" and "it depends on the situation" but please. Spare me that crap okay? 9.7 times out of ten NObody would be thrilled that their boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance/hu sband/wife wants to hang out with an ex-fling.
I realize alot of you geniuses want to compare it with your own situation but come on. This isn't some ex-husband with whom she's had children and spent years of marriage and fidelity, and HAS to keep in contact for the childrens sake, it's some latin eff buddy from the past.
I love how American chicks like to turn it into "well you're just a control freak" and "can't a girl have friends?" when it's just common sense. A or B. Pick one and stick with it.
By the way I completely agree with your last paragraph.

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Pool Shark wrote:

<quoted text>Guys will "hang around" hot girls accepting that they will be considered "friends" by the girl. They hope that somewhere down the line, at the right time and place that they will get lucky and the girl will have her guard down and have sex with them. A breakup, a fight, the guy taking off on a trip somewhere without her, the guy going to his high school reunion without her etc. But the women will always say "Nah, we are only friends, don't worry about him".

Cam wrote:

Give me one good reason why a man should sign the marriage contact with an American woman. With a foreign bride, I guess you need to sign the marriage contract so she can get her green card and move to the United States. Ok, fine.
But with an American woman, why not just live with her and eff her. Verbally commit for life if you want.
The ONLY thing that signing that marriage contract will do is ensure that the man receives a solid ass raping in divorce court if the relationship doesn't work out. And since American-American marriages have a 60% divorce rate, that's a very real possibility.
As a man, what's in it for me?
Unless you are that dancer who married J-Lo of course.
Plus they get fat and fat women suck. They eat too much food, drink all the beer, breathe too much air, take up too much space. To clothe them takes miles of material.

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Cam wrote:

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So? His high school sweatheart? Give me a break. What was that, like 32 years ago?*scoff* Tell you what. My lady can go have lunch with her 7th grade boyfriend and I'll go have margaritas with the asian slut I used to bang a few years ago. We'll see how that one works.

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Rambeaux wrote:

How can a guy enjoy sex without any emotional attachement? I can't...

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Cam wrote:

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It's more a matter of: if I am with you,I don't talk to MY exes, so why should you start? I know chicks wanna write new rules every week at 3pm but whats more important? An ex Eff buddy or your current flame? It's not that hard. She should make a choice. Either she wants to marry Waldo or she wants to show Javier her fu-fu.
If the guy had one or more current female friends that he's effed, then she would have an arguement but thats not the case here, and I hear terms like "well, circumstances" and "it depends on the situation" but please. Spare me that crap okay? 9.7 times out of ten NObody would be thrilled that their boyfriend/girlfriend/fiance/hu sband/wife wants to hang out with an ex-fling.
I realize alot of you geniuses want to compare it with your own situation but come on. This isn't some ex-husband with whom she's had children and spent years of marriage and fidelity, and HAS to keep in contact for the childrens sake, it's some latin eff buddy from the past.
I love how American chicks like to turn it into "well you're just a control freak" and "can't a girl have friends?" when it's just common sense. A or B. Pick one and stick with it.
By the way I completely agree with your last paragraph.

Joe wrote:

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I just thought that everyone could use a break from Hollywood/MTV/mainstream crap and listen to REAL music.

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paintedquote wrote:

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I agree with this. I have not heard one Russian/EU woman come in here and praise the men of their country....and, personally, I have NO problem with them looking towards America for a future - in any way, shape or form. I happen to like and have a lot of respect, generally speaking, for women from that part of the world. You all think American women are tough? Pfft! THESE women, especially those over 35 who remember the Cold War, have been doing nothing but fighting for themselves and their children for a better life. Frankly, America could use more women like that, here, as opposed to the materialistic lot that has emerged within the last 15 or 20 years.
BUT - THAT, in itself, does not make American women any less worthy, respectable or loving.
It's boring to keep saying AND hearing - there are good and bad everywhere. All I know is there are more men that would rather be with me than without me - even if that means only friendship and I think that says something about the kind of woman I am in their eyes.
They know that I am loyal, honest, smart, family oriented, friend oriented (A lot has to do with our histories, growing up together), home oriented, LOVE to travel, cook, garden, paint - adore my child more than my own breath.....and, generally speaking, look younger than my age.
In spite of what crazy Joan was saying, I am a women who genuinely likes other women - and, I grew up with men - I genuinely find them heartwarming and amusing, as well.
But, no one finds angry, spiteful, negative, paranoid, crass, cruel people the least bit heartwarming OR amusing - male or female.

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Raptor X wrote:

<quoted text>I never said that american women are less worthy. Only that their mentality is all f##ked up. You watch reality shows(which I hate with a passion), and this is what american women have become. Having babies with multiple fathers, loud, arrogant, attention craving, stupid ass women. It is a small percentage of course, but it is heading that way more and more. They feel that this freedom that women are getting more of since the sixties, means they can do, and act any way they want. Common morals are disappearing in this country. If a woman wants to be treated as a lady, then she should act like one, and not dress like a slut. There ARE good women in america, but they are either taken, or have some issues. The only thing left is trashy sluts. Man's only option is to look somewhere else.

deport Obama wrote:

<quoted text>Has it ever ocurred to you that the more immigrants that come to america,the worse this country gets?what does that tell you?the problem isnt americans,its the invaders that come here that f*ck everything up.That is the problem that needs to be dealt with.

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Raptor X wrote:

<quoted text>I have to agree with this. A woman(or man) doesn't have any business being friends with an ex, if they want to be in a relationship. That's why they are called exes. They have been crossed out of you life. If someone feels the need to be friends with an ex, then it is pretty damn obvious that they haven't completely let go. It WILL put a damper on the relationship, no matter if you are jealous or not. If there is a child, then of course there has to be communication with the ex. But that is as far as it should go. Only communication. Why be friends with someone that made your life a living hell? It doesn't make any sense, unless there are still some feelings and that person is still holding on to them. My wife doesn't have a jealous bone in her body. But I will not be friends with an ex(only communicate if seen somewhere), simply out of respect for my wife. She comes first above all others(except our daughter). If a man or woman has to be friends with a ex, then she or he needs to get their priorities straight before having another relationship.

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Edthirty wrote:

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It appears that there are a few posters in here that don't understand your message, rather, they'd rather blame men for being insecure. It's hard to believe that there are absolutely no feelings for ex's that remain "just friends."

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Raptor X wrote:

<quoted text>I have learned in my years of dealing with women, that "just friends" means someone I can return to just incase you and me don't work out.

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FairSkinnedGirl wrote:

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That's entirely untrue. I know I personally have a friend, who has always been just a friend, never dated. He has always had his girlfriends, and I've always had my boyfriends and we've been friends since high school.
I also have an ex, with whom we parted ways very amicably. We were both dealing with a lot when we started dating, and one day both realized we'd get too deep into a relationship that would lead to heartbreak if it didn't end. We never let ourselves get too involved because to be honest, we both knew we wanted entirely different things out of life.
Both of those guys are just friends in my life. And the important thing to note there is that they only think of me as a friend also.

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Raptor X wrote:

<quoted text>I have learned in my years of dealing with women, that "just friends" means someone I can return to just incase you and me don't work out.