3 Arrested in Child Cruelty Case

tnz wrote:

<quoted text> Thank you for your concern for the boys tehy are greatly loved by alot of people.

Just not their parents. Meth is their first love.

Tessa the Henry Hilton will make you Think! True. But once on the street again, you have to be careful.Also when your ct. date comes up in Clayton Co. You could be violated when the verdict comes in.So careful of what you say.So if you were given visitation , When is it?

tnz wrote:

<quoted text>Sweetie I have come a long way.. Im not saying that I want my boys to come home right noe .. Im trying to get my life together first which is a definite before I can get them back which will take time.. they are being cared for by some wonderful loving people in which I know that they are being well taken care of.. All I want is the visitation that the judge ordered on march 10 2008.. I know this will be a long road but I love them and you were not there you dont know what all happened with jay and I that day and I will not be fighting to get them into my custody for years but I will be visiting with them and building a healthy relationship for them.. I have to fix things that have occurred in my life but I am human and I do want to see them.. This is all that I am going to reply to... Thank you all for the love and caring you have all shown for the boys they are precious and you may say some terrible things about me but I do know that the boys have alot of people that care for them and that is all that really matters.

tnz wrote:

<quoted text>Oh and yes the boys are doing great per defacs they are fully recovered and being taken care of very well!!! Thank you for your concern for the boys tehy are greatly loved by alot of people.

How could they possibly be "fully recovered" after months - no, a whole lifetime, for them - of abuse, starvation and neglect. The fact that you state that - and expect others to believe it - gives further proof that you do not acknowledge that they WERE NEAR DEATH because of what YOU did to them. You have a long way to go. "Fully recovered," ????? RIGHT!!!!!

CHILD ADVOCATE wrote:

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How could they possibly be "fully recovered" after months - no, a whole lifetime, for them - of abuse, starvation and neglect. The fact that you state that - and expect others to believe it - gives further proof that you do not acknowledge that they WERE NEAR DEATH because of what YOU did to them. You have a long way to go. "Fully recovered," ????? RIGHT!!!!!

I completely agree with you!!! This just shows how out of touch with reality she really is. And it proves nothing she says can be taken seriously. These babies could not possibly be where they need to be by now. I am sure they are not walking and talking like a 20 month old should.

unknown wrote:

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I completely agree with you!!! This just shows how out of touch with reality she really is. And it proves nothing she says can be taken seriously. These babies could not possibly be where they need to be by now. I am sure they are not walking and talking like a 20 month old should.

they are walking and talking and laughing...defacs wouldnt lie plus ive seen the pictures

Although I find it difficult to believe that the children are in the normal or recovered range with their development, I hope defacs uses each step of their recovery as further evidence of your inability to raise these children. I only hope you give up your rights to them so that they can be adopted and not be raised by the foster care system. If there is any part of you that ever loved these boys, let them go.

They are not in the foster care system they are with family.

TNZ, they are walking, talking ad laughing NOT BECAUSE OF YOU but because they have people who love and take care of them in a way YOU NEVER DID.
Unfortunately, with the boys in the state they were there is no way to know the long term effects of the deprivation. Anyone who has children or takes care of them knows that. Only, TNZ would be so stupid to say something like that.
I will be so grateful when you get exactly what is deserving. You need to be held accountable for your actions and what you did to those boys in the short time you had them.
If you have any love in your heart for them you will do what is right and let them be cared for by the people who want to take of them.
One more thing before I go, TNZ make sure you are not in violation of your felony probation or your bond conditions while you are out. It won't take much for you to be violation and your A** will be right back in jail where you belong.
Never know who is watching! Sleep Well...:)

Wow Tessa you sure did make that person mad.But they did make a good point.I feel bad for your children. They will not even know you.And if they do someone will always remind them of what you let happen to them. Pictures do not lie.I'll just hope they are in good hands. After all you and Jay put them there.

Sadly, these selfish, drug addicted, negligent parents have certainly done permanent damage to these kids. The first years of life are critical. Since the kids were not properly nurtured or stimulated, they will struggle the rest of their lives.

You are right....a zebra can't change it's stripes..... Those boys are with who they are meant in life to be with. A true mother knows where and when a child is supposed to be cared for and who they are supposed to be cared for by. A true mother knows when to say I can;t handle this......Grow up TNZ!!!!! Realize you are not a mother....you are simply someone who gave birth.....Someone who gave birth to two VERY beautiful babies....And as said before.........SLEEP WELL!!!!

Mr E wrote:

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Just not their parents. Meth is their first love.

What these two monsters did to their children is beyond belief. And for Momma Monster Tessa to come on this website crying about how much she LOVES these children, is absolutely mind boggling. I am sure she would be saying the same thing if the children had died, which very well could have happened if the pair of them hadn't done drugs to the point of unconsciousness.

Tessa and Jay both are lower than animals. Animals take better care of their children than these two selfish drug addicts took care of theirs.

Unbelievable, all these posts about pray for Tessa and Jay. To hell with them both, they don't deserve to even be alive, too bad they can't be starved themselves, which is what they deserve.

Who cares they did drugs? It seems they didn't forget to feed themselves. The grandparents too, both sets should feel the pain and misery of what they allowed to happen to these children for the rest of their lives. I understand that Jay's family have taken the children in NOW, but what about before?????

Whoever said in an earlier posts that these were "high class" whites, you are mistaken. First of all, this would have never happened if these people, EITHER side, had any class at all. Also, it should be noted from the friends to the relatives posting here, they are practically illiterate. People like these are why the South has a bad reputation.

Tesss and Jay should be spayed and neutered.

Nicely put!

You must of never dealt with Drugs in your family.

JenniferInSC wrote:

What these two monsters did to their children is beyond belief. And for Momma Monster Tessa to come on this website crying about how much she LOVES these children, is absolutely mind boggling. I am sure she would be saying the same thing if the children had died, which very well could have happened if the pair of them hadn't done drugs to the point of unconsciousness.
Tessa and Jay both are lower than animals. Animals take better care of their children than these two selfish drug addicts took care of theirs.
Unbelievable, all these posts about pray for Tessa and Jay. To hell with them both, they don't deserve to even be alive, too bad they can't be starved themselves, which is what they deserve.
Who cares they did drugs? It seems they didn't forget to feed themselves. The grandparents too, both sets should feel the pain and misery of what they allowed to happen to these children for the rest of their lives. I understand that Jay's family have taken the children in NOW, but what about before?????
Whoever said in an earlier posts that these were "high class" whites, you are mistaken. First of all, this would have never happened if these people, EITHER side, had any class at all. Also, it should be noted from the friends to the relatives posting here, they are practically illiterate. People like these are why the South has a bad reputation.
Tesss and Jay should be spayed and neutered.

careless wrote:

You must of never dealt with Drugs in your family.<quoted text>

No, I haven't. Does it make you illiterate and ignorant if you have drug addicts in your family? Does it cause you to have no consideration for two innocent babies??? Does it cause you to turn a blind eye to starvation of babies if you have drug addicts in your family? No, instead it suggests the entire family of both monster parents have issues with their level of intelligence and their lack of a normal capacity for compassion, as well as the monster parents.

It has been posted over and over on this forum that the truth will come out. There is no truth I need other than to see a picture of these skeletal babies next to the pictures of the well fed monster parents to know the truth.

As far as the drug addict's families, they had to know these two were incapable of caring for babies, which had special needs due to their premature births, to begin with. Monster Momma Tess and Monster Daddy Jay couldn't even care for themselves properly, much less the twins. Those babies did not get that thin overnight. They were starved, and there is no way you can tell me that someone from either of the monster's families had not seen and noted the appearance of starvation in these children.

And to read Monster Momma Tess on this forum thanking everyone for their support, and patting herself on the back for going to school, stating how much she "loves" these babies, and how she can't wait to be with them again, simply makes me gag. She belongs in prison, AFTER she has been spayed.

Maybe you haven't dealt with drugs in your family, but careful there is always the future .Plus because you haven't then you do not know what you are talking about.Why don't you go to a N.A. meeting and here some of the Mother's that deal with addiction with their chilren.You think you know so much. God is control of this.Tessa and Jay know they are the reason for what has happened. I do think and pray for the Twins all the time. And people like you Reap what they Sow.

JenniferInSC wrote:

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No, I haven't. Does it make you illiterate and ignorant if you have drug addicts in your family? Does it cause you to have no consideration for two innocent babies??? Does it cause you to turn a blind eye to starvation of babies if you have drug addicts in your family? No, instead it suggests the entire family of both monster parents have issues with their level of intelligence and their lack of a normal capacity for compassion, as well as the monster parents.
It has been posted over and over on this forum that the truth will come out. There is no truth I need other than to see a picture of these skeletal babies next to the pictures of the well fed monster parents to know the truth.
As far as the drug addict's families, they had to know these two were incapable of caring for babies, which had special needs due to their premature births, to begin with. Monster Momma Tess and Monster Daddy Jay couldn't even care for themselves properly, much less the twins. Those babies did not get that thin overnight. They were starved, and there is no way you can tell me that someone from either of the monster's families had not seen and noted the appearance of starvation in these children.
And to read Monster Momma Tess on this forum thanking everyone for their support, and patting herself on the back for going to school, stating how much she "loves" these babies, and how she can't wait to be with them again, simply makes me gag. She belongs in prison, AFTER she has been spayed.

And do you have children?

JenniferInSC wrote:

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No, I haven't. Does it make you illiterate and ignorant if you have drug addicts in your family? Does it cause you to have no consideration for two innocent babies??? Does it cause you to turn a blind eye to starvation of babies if you have drug addicts in your family? No, instead it suggests the entire family of both monster parents have issues with their level of intelligence and their lack of a normal capacity for compassion, as well as the monster parents.
It has been posted over and over on this forum that the truth will come out. There is no truth I need other than to see a picture of these skeletal babies next to the pictures of the well fed monster parents to know the truth.
As far as the drug addict's families, they had to know these two were incapable of caring for babies, which had special needs due to their premature births, to begin with. Monster Momma Tess and Monster Daddy Jay couldn't even care for themselves properly, much less the twins. Those babies did not get that thin overnight. They were starved, and there is no way you can tell me that someone from either of the monster's families had not seen and noted the appearance of starvation in these children.
And to read Monster Momma Tess on this forum thanking everyone for their support, and patting herself on the back for going to school, stating how much she "loves" these babies, and how she can't wait to be with them again, simply makes me gag. She belongs in prison, AFTER she has been spayed.

careless wrote:

Maybe you haven't dealt with drugs in your family, but careful there is always the future .Plus because you haven't then you do not know what you are talking about.Why don't you go to a N.A. meeting and here some of the Mother's that deal with addiction with their chilren.You think you know so much. God is control of this.Tessa and Jay know they are the reason for what has happened. I do think and pray for the Twins all the time. And people like you Reap what they Sow.<quoted text>

Drugs are not the only problem that can befall a family. My family has had its own problems, thank you very much. I can guarantee you, however, that you will not see a family member of mine on the news, who has been allowed to abuse and starve children, while the entire rest of the family looks the other way.

This is in God's hands, you say? Where was God when those children were starving? Was it in his hands then too? NO, the welfare of those children were in Jay and Tessa's hands, and their respective families, and they ALL obviously ignored the suffering these children were forced to endure. Why not just walk in the "trailer" and take the children out of there while these two were in one of their drug induced comas? If they couldn't even pay their rent, nor REMEMBER to feed their infant children, it is highly unlikely they would have the ability or the stamina to fight against a family member who took those children out of that abusive home and into a safe environment.

Do I have children? Yes, I do. I have one son who is 33 years old. Did I have problems with him and drugs? Absolutely not. I did not expect the school system to raise my child, nor did I leave him at home alone and hand him ipods and computer games to compensate for neglecting him. I was there for him, I took notice of who is friends were and where he spent his time. But you can be sure of ONE thing. If he HAD become addicted to drugs, I would not have allowed him to let my grandchildren starve while he was well fed and spending his money on drugs. You can believe I would have went into his "trailer" and taken those children out to safety. Count on it.

You can put a spin on this any way you choose. You can wish bad things on me all you choose. The bottom line is that Tessa and Jay ignored two precious living babies while starving them, as they fed themselves pretty well and spent their money on getting high. And the families of both looked the other way. No "I'm sorry's" nor "we didn't know" will erase nor excuse those facts. It was done, it was ignored, and those who were party to it should be punished.

Careless, shut the hell up already. Stop making excuses for these idiots. The parents aren't victims. They are losers! Stop crying about "they have an addiction." Sorry, addiction is NOT an illness. It's a choice. You don't CHOOSE to get breast cancer. You don't choose to get lupus. You don't choose to get multiple sclerosis. But you DO choose to get addicted to meth. No one forces it on you. There are TONS of warnings about the dangers of trying meth. These idiots thought they were so cool, and thought that meth would be fun to try, without a care in the world of how it would affect their children.

I'm sick of reading your crap. These parents are dirtbags. Don't sugar coat what they did. Don't make them out to be victims of a situation outside of their control. They made their own selfish decisions, now their kids have to suffer for the rest of their lives.

Careless, you're disgusting for sticking up for these worthless parents. I wouldn't be surprised if you ARE one of the parents.

You have no right to say I'm one of these parents. And yes if you will look back you will see I do blame the two for what happened. But drugs addiction is a illness. And if you haven't dealt with it . Then you do not know.And I'm not crying any thing.And No I'm not sugar coating them starving their children. And I'm sure justice will be done.At least for the boys.For all the self centered idiots who have never lost a loved one to drugs.Think again, it could happen!

The Sage wrote:

Careless, shut the hell up already. Stop making excuses for these idiots. The parents aren't victims. They are losers! Stop crying about "they have an addiction." Sorry, addiction is NOT an illness. It's a choice. You don't CHOOSE to get breast cancer. You don't choose to get lupus. You don't choose to get multiple sclerosis. But you DO choose to get addicted to meth. No one forces it on you. There are TONS of warnings about the dangers of trying meth. These idiots thought they were so cool, and thought that meth would be fun to try, without a care in the world of how it would affect their children.
I'm sick of reading your crap. These parents are dirtbags. Don't sugar coat what they did. Don't make them out to be victims of a situation outside of their control. They made their own selfish decisions, now their kids have to suffer for the rest of their lives.
Careless, you're disgusting for sticking up for these worthless parents. I wouldn't be surprised if you ARE one of the parents.