i am a female of 50 and this absoultey makes me so mad, its like not taking care of the elderly that are our parents. we have worked hard all of our young and even middle age lives, and because of the economey are still having to work into our golden years, not to have somebody not even wont to take care of us when we cant reach up to wipe our snoty nose. i'm pissed how can i help in some small way?