For BW who think IR (white men)is the solution.

THICKLKSNICKERS wrote:

<quoted text> I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY SOME PEOPLE BELIEVE THAT BREEDING BLACK KIDS TO KEEP THE B LACK RACE PURE IS WHAT EVERY BLACK WOMAN WANTS TO DO. SOME BLACK WOMEN DO NOT WANT TO HAVE FAMILIES WITH BLACK MEN. DAMN WHY CAN'T SOME OF THESE BLACK MEN UNDERSTAND THAT. SORRY IF I MADE SOME SPELLING MISTAKES BUT I AM SO ANGRY.

c/s great post,some of us want to do what makes us happy.Why do black women have to worry about perserving the race if they aren't happy being with a black man,it's a waste of time.If others want to do it for the sake of the black race.....go for it just leave me da fxck alone.

Brenda wrote:

I have NEVER bashed ANY black man unprovoked. I am usually attacked for being married to a Jewish man. If it APPEARS that I was bashing, I beg to differ. I was defending myself against haters of I/R. Why do you all assume that all BW that date/marry out of their race are BM bashers?
I have witnessed 1 BM basher. And she is at the point of not giving two cent. Show me where and when I have bashed a BM, unprovoked, and I will leave this forum tomorrow. However, I can show YOU time and time again where I have been attacked for nothing other than loving a non-black man.

Hey Brenda how are you doing girl?:D

Why is it that people always blame their problems on everyone but themselves? Maybe it's just the kind of black men certain women choose...and there have been times I've seen women complain about the men they get and it's really not the men that's the problem, it's them!

CANDAYMAMA wrote:

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Hey Brenda how are you doing girl?:D

I'm doing good, Canday. How are you doing with your studies? I trust everything is going well in your life. So, who is the lucky guy? I know there must be one. <smiling>

It's about risk assessment. Take a look at the average black man in society and look at the average white man. That's the answer for you right there. Y'all can sign up for life long misery or happiness, it's on you.

CHOCOLATE FLAVOR wrote:

It never fails.The same ol Black male bashing.*shakes head*I've never seen so many blacks who hated themselves in my life.Even if BM are dirty dogs,why the fuck would you bash your race under any circumstance??? SICK! Yall act like the WM any better.I know plenty of brothas who have a good head on their shoulders,raise their children,have an education,and are doing something with their lives.
I also know a few white guys who are doing the total opposite.There are millions of WM who cheat,lie,don't raise their children,and are bad fathers,so what the fuck is wrong with yall brains.Why the fuck are yall uplfting WM and praising them like dating them is the solution.
Dirty no good men come in all races and trust me-there are plenty of whites who do it.Yall sone fuckng self hating uncle tom idiots.Im really interested in finding out what exactly was it that caused so many of you women to bash your own brothas like this.SICKENING.
Are yall that blind to not know and see that WM are no better???? It's not a matter of color-it's about the individual.Besides,yall women are stupid idiots anyway,because i don't know how many Black women i seen with a good BM and they treated him like shit.It never fails.
That leads me to believe yall copouts don't know what the fuck yall want.When yall do find good brothas,which there are plenty out there,yall treat him like shit.UGH! Yall bitches make me sick.Grow the fuck up and stop bashing black men and look at yourself and what you done to contribute to him cheating on ya self hating asses.

think again homo fudge packing mutha fuxka

Delilah wrote:

It's about risk assessment. Take a look at the average black man in society and look at the average white man. That's the answer for you right there. Y'all can sign up for life long misery or happiness, it's on you.

No race of men are perfect, your skin color shouldnt define the type of man you are. And if some women choose to date IR because they feel that all black men are the same well then they are quite sad.

Brenda wrote:

<quoted text>I'm doing good, Canday. How are you doing with your studies? I trust everything is going well in your life. So, who is the lucky guy? I know there must be one. <smiling>

It's pretty swell,I only have one more week in summer school,I just have a final and a essay to write for next week.How's everything in your life going? My boyfriend name is Tim,I love him very much,but I'm balancing school and our relationship.

kaley wrote:

Why is it that people always blame their problems on everyone but themselves? Maybe it's just the kind of black men certain women choose...and there have been times I've seen women complain about the men they get and it's really not the men that's the problem, it's them!

I agree, why do these women go to the certain black men that are considered to be no good in the first place? And then complain when they are treated bad its silly, because there are plenty of those types in every race and they will eventually find that out.

CANDAYMAMA wrote:

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c/s great post,some of us want to do what makes us happy.Why do black women have to worry about perserving the race if they aren't happy being with a black man,it's a waste of time.If others want to do it for the sake of the black race.....go for it just leave me da fxck alone.

right on bay bay

kaley wrote:

Why is it that people always blame their problems on everyone but themselves? Maybe it's just the kind of black men certain women choose...and there have been times I've seen women complain about the men they get and it's really not the men that's the problem, it's them!

Thank you,my point exactly.Why is it that Black women can't date white men without hating and bashing Black men??? Why are they stupid enough to think that all white men are faithful and legit like they do no wrong? Come on, are these women that ignorant and stupid to believe that garbage? They act like dating a white man makes life so much easier like they don't fuck up and have flaws.

I can care less if these self hating bitches date white men,but i don't understand why it is they feel the need to explain why they're dating a white man and blame black men for doing it.Could it be a guilty conscious? I don't know and can't answer that,but i find it very disturbing and quite sickening that they are so willing to bash black men the way they do.

I think it's unacceptable as a Black woman to bash black men under any circumstance ,because at the end of the day,he's still a brother ,and your white husband is a cracker.It's like they can see the black mans flaws so clear but aren't bright enough to realize that white men aren't perfect angels and can be just as dirty as some Black men are.

I mean,it's just stupid how people generalize and put all Black men in one nutshell like they're all the same.The same black women in IR saying that we are racist for disagreeing with interracial dating are just as racist for making false judgements and stereotyping men by their culture,ethnicity,and skin color.

I think some of these women want a black man and have been hurt terribly bad,because they say alot of really hateful things about black men.I don't understand why they're still holding on to this hate if they're so happy with their perfect white lovers who do no wrong.

CANDAYMAMA wrote:

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think again homo fudge packing mutha fuxka

It must have applied to you or else you wouldn't have comment.I know the truth hurts.Maybe i'll be a little more gentle for you and sugarcoat the truth for your guilty azz.We all know white folk are prone to suicide when their emotions get the better of them.HEHEHEHE,LMBAO!

And you can call me what you like slave,because even the most feminite of Gay Black men,which im not,still look more masculine than those white pigs you're so in love with.

Brian Gentler Dick wrote:

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Remember everyone, these are from the words of HOMOSEXUAL.

amen to that bro.

CHOCOLATE FLAVOR wrote:

<quoted text>It must have applied to you or else you wouldn't have comment.I know the truth hurts.Maybe i'll be a little more gentle for you and sugarcoat the truth for your guilty azz.We all know white folk are prone to suicide when their emotions get the better of them.HEHEHEHE,LMBAO!

lmao!

Brian Gentler Dick wrote:

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Remember everyone, these are from the words of HOMOSEXUAL.

Your point?? Yeah,im a homosexual ,and what's your point??? I don't get it.HAHAHAHAHAHA LMAO! How stupid is that to think that because someones gay that they can't speak the truth or about anything that's not about homosexuality.

That's like me saying white cracker assholes shouldn't speak on things concerning Black folk because they aren't Black,which would mean,since im gay and shouldn't speak on hetrosexual acts,you're white so you shouldn't be on our forum.*SHAKES HEAD*

And Yet,it's ok for heterosexuals to be all up in homsexuals bussiness telling them how they should and shouldn't live.HAHAHAHAHA! Is that contradicting???? Oh no,it wouldn't be because the asshole whos being a dickhead making the most retarded comment in Topix history is gay himself.WOW!Talking about delusional.HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.

I swear mofos around here need to start taking their medication.HEHEHEHEHE!!!!!Ladi es and Gentlemen,stupidity is unacceptable,very unacceptable.LMBAO while shaking my head****

rev ike wrote:

<quoted text>amen to that bro.

Amen???? Your soft ass can't even show us your pic.That's pussy like to me.And you got a nerve to be agreeing with some dam body.LMBAO! The psych ward is around the corner and down the street.I think you may want to give it a visit if you agree with that retarded ass comment he just made,because it seems you aren't too bright in the head neither.HEHEHEHEHE LMBAO@ The unbelievably stupid ass comments i just heard.*ROLLING MY EYES WHILE SMACKING MY TEETH AND SHAKING MY HEAD*

CANDAYMAMA wrote:

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lmao!

Yeah,you should laugh more often-it'll ease the pain just a little bit,and the truth i spit won't hurt you as much.Now im the mofo who should be laughing right now at you crazy looking azz.

canday-man wrote:

<quoted text>right on bay bay

umm umm give me kiss.

CHOCOLATE FLAVOR wrote:

And another thing,the white men you are with are obviously not better than Black men if yall still bashing black men.When yall bash black men that tells me that yall mad that yall don't got one.If yall are happy with yall white pigs,why the fuck are yall still degrading black men???
Why do you have to keep black men in your mouth if the white man making you so happy????? Yall angry ,because yall really want one ,and yall can't find one to treat yall asses right.Why would they ,when yall are copouts??? A real black woman would hang in there with her man and support him,which would ultimately tell him that yall love him .Eventually ,he'll straighten his act out.
That's yall fucking problem,yall don't want to work at anything.Sometimes you're going to get cheated on ,but that can be a learning experience.Sometimes you have to wait until they come around ,because if you think the white man aren't going to want multiple women and cheat you a dam fool.A man is a man.
Im so tired of hearing these sorry azz exscuses for why it's acceptable to run to the white man like they're perfect angles who do no wrong.Grow a brain ,because yall bitches is stupid.

What about blacks constantly bashing white men? Totally ridiculous of you to cry about it when you guys are the main culprits for this.