Married men lose interest in their wives -Why ?

-boring sex

-nagging

-gained weight

-got older

-viewed her differently after giving birth

-wants new kitty

Men, by default...are designed to mate with as many partners as possible. They're visual creatures thus their attention span doesn't last that long. Once their wives start losing the figure she had after popping out his kids...the average male gets deinterested in her. Some stay loyal to their wives even though they're not attracted to them anymore...while others cheat.

Please count me out..I have a very understanding wife..She doesnt put up with bull..Now I love the ladies and she knows it..but she also knows I aint going no where.
She aint going any where either..we have almost 13 years..it feels good.
Flirting or being a lil friendly keeps u young.
Its when u go all the way that u get all old and stinky.
Some guys are dogs..I could be one, but why.
She gave me 2 kids..and her hand, so I aint gonna take that for granted.
You ladys are tricky..well some of you exspect us to slobber all over you, but not me baby
Ill give u a look, but thats about it. but if I were single..ha ha u would get a lil more..but im just not that horny to cheat.
plus who is gonna give me baths, and rub my back.

Jumbojet wrote:

Please count me out..I have a very understanding wife..She doesnt put up with bull..Now I love the ladies and she knows it..but she also knows I aint going no where.
She aint going any where either..we have almost 13 years..it feels good.
Flirting or being a lil friendly keeps u young.
Its when u go all the way that u get all old and stinky.
Some guys are dogs..I could be one, but why.
She gave me 2 kids..and her hand, so I aint gonna take that for granted.
You ladys are tricky..well some of you exspect us to slobber all over you, but not me baby
Ill give u a look, but thats about it. but if I were single..ha ha u would get a lil more..but im just not that horny to cheat.
plus who is gonna give me baths, and rub my back.

Yep all men love women, just some have more intense degrees than others, when Im in a solid relationship, it's all about me and her

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Jumbojet wrote:

Please count me out..I have a very understanding wife..She doesnt put up with bull..Now I love the ladies and she knows it..but she also knows I aint going no where.
She aint going any where either..we have almost 13 years..it feels good.
Flirting or being a lil friendly keeps u young.
Its when u go all the way that u get all old and stinky.
Some guys are dogs..I could be one, but why.
She gave me 2 kids..and her hand, so I aint gonna take that for granted.
You ladys are tricky..well some of you exspect us to slobber all over you, but not me baby
Ill give u a look, but thats about it. but if I were single..ha ha u would get a lil more..but im just not that horny to cheat.
plus who is gonna give me baths, and rub my back.

awww, that's sweet.

Roxi-J wrote:

Men, by default...are designed to mate with as many partners as possible. They're visual creatures thus their attention span doesn't last that long. Once their wives start losing the figure she had after popping out his kids...the average male gets deinterested in her. Some stay loyal to their wives even though they're not attracted to them anymore...while others cheat.

i agree 100%. also, sometimes people get a little 'comfy' in their relationship once they've caught their mate.

men get that mid 40s spread or go bald and women gain weight after kids, stop wearing makeup or dressing sexily for her man.

but seeng how men are more visual they give in to their primal urge which is to spread their seed. not all men of course, but it's a male's nature to want to procreate.

they keep producing semen throughout their lives and women have the same stale eggs she was born with.

a man can produce offspring at 90.. lol i doubt i'll be seeing any 90 year old women spitting out babies.

i think monogamy is unnatural for men, but many men do go against that natural inclination and remain faithful.

Roxi-J wrote:

Once their wives start losing the figure she had after popping out his kids

How common is that phenomenon losing a figure after babies?

Wives can lose interest also for similar reasons like nagging and lack of "good" sex. But also both sides are no longer trying to "get you". They getcho, gotcho, been had you. And being comfortable most poeple aren't pulling out those "trick" anymore. It's like; swing from the ceiling fan, please so i would have to spend some of my "shoe" money replacing it for two minutes of action...no thanks got laundry to get to, and suddenly no body is doing gymnastic in the bedroom anymore lol.

Married men as do most women get bored very quickly.Everything becomes routine-especially sex!.I've never been married but I have lived long enough to see a few marriages blow the f##k up to fragments of hatered and blame!.
To me you have to stay innovative,spontaneous and you have to treat each day of your life of wedlock like your first date.Other wise you'll both get tired of the same schedule.

To much sex on a regular bases and they get bored.

Hey, my marriage is so successful because we treat each other as partners. We agree to disagree and we have promised not to take everything too seriously.

Oh...and the sex with her is fantastic. It seems we learn something new each year!

We are both fitness addicts and folks really think I am younger than what I am!

I'm 21 years older than my sweet wife! We love each other madly! She has been the driving force for my success.

stereo type breaker wrote:

<quoted text>Yep all men love women, just some have more intense degrees than others, when Im in a solid relationship, it's all about me and her

Stereo Whats up my brotha?
U got that right.
This womans had my back for so long Im like that old blind and death dog, that wont leave her side.

But I get your point..good luck to you and yours

Black-Cuban_Mami wrote:

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awww, that's sweet.

Oh no you wont..Im stayn away from you..your too hott to be talkn too.
Ive been doing real good lately..and I aint gonna mess up now.:-)

Rekik wrote:

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How common is that phenomenon losing a figure after babies?

VERY..lol

and if they do keep their figure after the birth, a lot of times the skin will have stretch marks.

or it will be loose in parts.

Jumbojet wrote:

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Oh no you wont..Im stayn away from you..your too hott to be talkn too.
Ive been doing real good lately..and I aint gonna mess up now.:-)

lol you are just ten kinds of wrong!

Black-Cuban_Mami wrote:

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VERY..lol
and if they do keep their figure after the birth, a lot of times the skin will have stretch marks.
or it will be loose in parts.

no way! I've never noticed this with any of my friends or relatives Is this a Western thing or tied with obesity?

Rekik wrote:

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no way! I've never noticed this with any of my friends or relatives Is this a Western thing or tied with obesity?

i honestly don't know. i always thought it happened to many women.

i got pretty lucky because i regained my body.

My grandmother use to say after a man sleeps with his wife "she becomes old hat" Anyway, I voted other reasons, b/c a man can be getting great freaky sex from a nice looking wife and he will still cheat, how do I know? b/c it happened to a friend of mine. Men are given too many excuses for their trifling behavior.

Eddy Smegma wrote:

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21 years older? LOL!!! Who are you, the black Larry King? LOL!!!
I was 21 years old when I met my wife-to-be. She was 19 at the time. And some folks accused ME of robbing the cradle!

LOL, yes we met in a DC Government agency where we both worked. I left to pursue starting a business, but we became good friends from the start, later romance and then marriage.

We fell in love right after she left college and entered in the work force. Then marriage, she never made me feel older! We are both happy about our marriage.

Sounds like you are happy about your wife too.

God Bless you and your family. I hope all your goals and dreams become reality!