Why Did Some BM Destroy The Union Between BM & BW?

Why did many black men almost single handedly destroy the strong union between black men and black women for white women or white-like women? Now black men whine and have the nerve to acted betrayed now that some black women are hooking up with white men.

When I was growing up black couples were tight! They had long since won their civil rights, were taking advantages of grants/loans to get their educations, getting good jobs, marrying and raising their black families together. Black people were finally buying homes in nice neighborhoods and had their own form of suburbia. I remember being a child in the late seventies and earlier 80s watching the great parties my parent threw! Everyone was happy and comfortable. Then as a teenager I started seeing more black men running to date white women. Excitingly praising and bragging about white women. Black men were betraying their black wives, black girlfriends and children for no reason except to chase white women. Black men really started ignoring black women's feelings and disrespecting black women but still expected black women to stand by and just take it.

I couldn't believe how black men where stabbing black women in the backs and rubbing their faces in black men's relationships with white women when black women had loved them and had been so damn loyal to black men. White women nor Latinas would have put up such treason from their same race of men that long!

That's why I applaud sisters who are open to dating other races of men and say to black women, not to wait for black love and to be with any race of men that you have a mutual love and respect with.

Because Black women don't do anything except talk about Ir.

EazyBreeze wrote:

Why did many black men almost single handedly destroy the strong union between black men and black women...

Now how in the hell could they do that???

Wouldn't that be like getting pregnant by yourself???

Frank wrote:

<quoted text>Now how in the hell could they do that???
Wouldn't that be like getting pregnant by yourself???

Frank you are too dam old to be asking the OP such a childish question! Yes it takes 2 to get make a baby, 2 to have a good relationship but it only takes one to fk up and fk-over their partner enough to destroy their relationship.

EazyBreeze wrote:

Why did many black men almost single handedly destroy the strong union between black men and black women for white women or white-like women? Now black men whine and have the nerve to acted betrayed now that some black women are hooking up with white men.
When I was growing up black couples were tight! They had long since won their civil rights, were taking advantages of grants/loans to get their educations, getting good jobs, marrying and raising their black families together. Black people were finally buying homes in nice neighborhoods and had their own form of suburbia. I remember being a child in the late seventies and earlier 80s watching the great parties my parent threw! Everyone was happy and comfortable. Then as a teenager I started seeing more black men running to date white women. Excitingly praising and bragging about white women. Black men were betraying their black wives, black girlfriends and children for no reason except to chase white women. Black men really started ignoring black women's feelings and disrespecting black women but still expected black women to stand by and just take it.
I couldn't believe how black men where stabbing black women in the backs and rubbing their faces in black men's relationships with white women when black women had loved them and had been so damn loyal to black men. White women nor Latinas would have put up such treason from their same race of men that long!
That's why I applaud sisters who are open to dating other races of men and say to black women, not to wait for black love and to be with any race of men that you have a mutual love and respect with.

Why are you assuming that it was bm and bm alone who undermined black male/black female relationships...that's what I'd like to know!

SOME BW WERE EVER WITH US BM FROM THE BEGINNING...OH YES THEY WERE THERE IN OUR CARS,OUR HOMES AND OUR BEDS...BUT THEIR MINDS WERE ACTUALLY ELSEWHERE....AS THEY SAY THE PROOF IS IN THE PUDDING...IT'S ALL COMING OUT IN THE WASH NOW!

AND WHY IS IT EVEN NECESSARY FOR SOME OF THESE BW TO BE SO HATEFUL AND BELLIGERENT WITH OTHER BM WHO ARE ACTUALLY WITH BW BY CHOICE...BM WHO HAVE ALWAYS LOVED,PROTECTED AND PREFERRED BW...SOME OF THESE WOMEN ARE WORST THAN ANY WHITE RACIST WHITE WOMAN...THEY MAKE THEM LOOK PALE IN COMPARISON....THINK ABOUT THAT?

Dang.Black men are real effed up!

Capree wrote:

Frank you are too dam old to be asking the OP such a childish question!

You're TOO DAMN STUPID not to KNOW THE ANSWER TO THE QUESTION!!!!!!

Like Proverbs 14:1 states, "Every wise woman buildeth her house (family): but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands."

Anyone with a BRAIN knows that FOOLISH BLACK WOMEN DESTROY THEIR OWN HOMES!!!!!!

Lol wrote:

Dang.Black men are real effed up!

Naw, it's you RACIST WHITE DEVILS that's REALLY effed up!

Frank wrote:

<quoted text>Naw, it's you RACIST WHITE DEVILS that's REALLY effed up!

Lol

Why cant we all just get along?

Capree wrote:

Frank you are too dam old to be asking the OP such a childish question!

Capree, as LONG AS YOU LIVE don't EVER ADDRESS ME IN THAT MANNER!!!!

Stay in a woman's place and we will get along!

If the problem is between Black men AND Black women, how are WE solely to blame???????

Its the media's(government) manipulation that caused this

Seriously yah need to stop with the b.s azz lies its past tired.

Not only you can tell when its a troll who starts a paticular thread by the antogonizing content of the opening post, but you can also tell how that the OP who actually started the thread will just walk away from it while the rest of the posters bicker over the subject.

EazyBreeze wrote:

Why did many black men almost single handedly destroy the strong union between black men and black women for white women or white-like women? Now black men whine and have the nerve to acted betrayed now that some black women are hooking up with white men.
When I was growing up black couples were tight! They had long since won their civil rights, were taking advantages of grants/loans to get their educations, getting good jobs, marrying and raising their black families together. Black people were finally buying homes in nice neighborhoods and had their own form of suburbia. I remember being a child in the late seventies and earlier 80s watching the great parties my parent threw! Everyone was happy and comfortable. Then as a teenager I started seeing more black men running to date white women. Excitingly praising and bragging about white women. Black men were betraying their black wives, black girlfriends and children for no reason except to chase white women. Black men really started ignoring black women's feelings and disrespecting black women but still expected black women to stand by and just take it.
I couldn't believe how black men where stabbing black women in the backs and rubbing their faces in black men's relationships with white women when black women had loved them and had been so damn loyal to black men. White women nor Latinas would have put up such treason from their same race of men that long!
That's why I applaud sisters who are open to dating other races of men and say to black women, not to wait for black love and to be with any race of men that you have a mutual love and respect with.

AGREED!

MrAnderson9 wrote:

Because Black women don't do anything except talk about Ir.

Why not talk about IR? When it was black men's who chose to shame and devalue black women by uplifting other men's women above their own women which played a big part in destroying the relationships and unity between black men and black women? I notice most white men go out of their way not to piss-off white women in this manner and praise their own white women, even the white men who are with Asian and black women won't disgrace their women like black men do.

Frank wrote:

<quoted text>Now how in the hell could they do that???
Wouldn't that be like getting pregnant by yourself???

Your logic is way off, you can't compare black men putting other women on pedestals while knocking their own black women to a pregancy. What are you talking about?

Moorspeaks wrote:

<quoted text>
Why are you assuming that it was bm and bm alone who undermined black male/black female relationships...that's what I'd like to know!
SOME BW WERE EVER WITH US BM FROM THE BEGINNING...OH YES THEY WERE THERE IN OUR CARS,OUR HOMES AND OUR BEDS...BUT THEIR MINDS WERE ACTUALLY ELSEWHERE....AS THEY SAY THE PROOF IS IN THE PUDDING...IT'S ALL COMING OUT IN THE WASH NOW!
AND WHY IS IT EVEN NECESSARY FOR SOME OF THESE BW TO BE SO HATEFUL AND BELLIGERENT WITH OTHER BM WHO ARE ACTUALLY WITH BW BY CHOICE...BM WHO HAVE ALWAYS LOVED,PROTECTED AND PREFERRED BW...SOME OF THESE WOMEN ARE WORST THAN ANY WHITE RACIST WHITE WOMAN...THEY MAKE THEM LOOK PALE IN COMPARISON....THINK ABOUT THAT?

Because many black men were the first ones to betray black women on a large scale by dating and marrying interracially even though black women had more reasons to like black men not working or supporting their families but black women didn't abandon black men for other men and still tried to uplift black men and even support them. Please don't bother digging up the poor black slave women who were raped or was forced into sexual relationships with their white slaveowners because these black women had no choice in the matter or the few black women who choose to have relationships or marriages with white men because black men's pursuit of white women out-weight them by a ton.

Black women would not be belligerent with black men who are with black women if you didn't try to defend and protect the IR black men who betrayed and ridicule black women.

vampiYAH stabB wrote:

If the problem is between Black men AND Black women, how are WE solely to blame???????

Because most black men were the ones who choose to disrespect and betray black women. It's as simple as that.