Black Men taking care of Non Black Kids?

It seems a bit strange to me but I see a lot of Black Men with non Black Women apparently rasing and taking care of non Black Kids???

It seems a bit odd to me that a lot of Black Men will run from their responsibilities as a Dad, but they turn around and embrace this role when they hook up with non Black Women...

I see these cats walking around in Best Buy and Walmart like they're in Bliss with white and hispanic kids on their backs walking right beside these kids mother smiling like chesser cats???

I don't really understand it, if you embrace a father figure typa role, why not just stay with your baby mammas and take care of your own kids? LMBAO....

Black men have extreme self hate. They put non-bw above bw (and consciously or subconsciously think of non-bm as superior to bm), and would rather raise a mixed, white, Asian or Hispanic child than a black kid. This is no secret.

I don't have kids, lol. Babysitted my brothers friend who just happened to be white, smh. It was awkward to be seen with him and his mom because people would assume I was dating her, disgusting. I don't date women with kids and I hate when people assume that I am. She is old enough to be my mom, Jesus.

trueasiaticblackman wrote:

It seems a bit strange to me but I see a lot of Black Men with non Black Women apparently rasing and taking care of non Black Kids???
It seems a bit odd to me that a lot of Black Men will run from their responsibilities as a Dad, but they turn around and embrace this role when they hook up with non Black Women...
I see these cats walking around in Best Buy and Walmart like they're in Bliss with white and hispanic kids on their backs walking right beside these kids mother smiling like chesser cats???
I don't really understand it, if you embrace a father figure typa role, why not just stay with your baby mammas and take care of your own kids? LMBAO....

First of all, how do you know that these men that are raising these non black kids have kids of their own. Also if these men do have kids why do you assume that their not being fathers to them? Other people's lives aren't for you to understand. Just live your our life and mind your business.

Reality wrote:

Black men have extreme self hate. They put non-bw above bw (and consciously or subconsciously think of non-bm as superior to bm), and would rather raise a mixed, white, Asian or Hispanic child than a black kid. This is no secret.

They're embarrassing and should be divorced from the black community....

most whites don't like them no more than they did prior to integration...

they're using these simpletons to push white supremacy....

it would be different if you saw them out cheesing with black kids and blk women....

but when they're with black kids and women... they're impatient, ignorant....

treason is not accepted in any culture but black....

these men need to be shunned by all black women including their mothers, family members.

They're a threat to the well being and EXTREMELY irrevant to the black community...

they no longer belong in the blk community.

At family gatherings they should be shunned...

They are unhealthy for the black community.

trigga11 wrote:

<quoted text> First of all, how do you know that these men that are raising these non black kids have kids of their own. Also if these men do have kids why do you assume that their not being fathers to them? Other people's lives aren't for you to understand. Just live your our life and mind your business.

Because a lot of em are too busy running away from child support and their kids.. Just because you don't acknowledge the elephant in the room don't mean he's not there.

And I actually know a few personally so it's not like i'm just popping smoke here.

Finally BM calling out IRBM...I don't believe this

trueasiaticblackman wrote:

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Because a lot of em are too busy running away from child support and their kids.. Just because you don't acknowledge the elephant in the room don't mean he's not there.

You never answered my question. How do you know these men you see with these non black kids have kids of their own? You see some random guys with non black women and their children making assumptions based on your own preconceived notions. Then come on here and post a question that none of men here can answer. If it concerned you so much why didn't you ask those black guys you seen with those non black children?

trueasiaticblackman wrote:

And I actually know a few personally so it's not like i'm just popping smoke here.

Those are a few personal experiences of yours. My personal experience is different. It's very uncommon to see a black man with a non black child. That just doesn't happen very often. Anyway, I'll attempt to answer your question. When I guy is dating a woman he has to deal with her kids weather their black or non black.

trueasiaticblackman wrote:

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Because a lot of em are too busy running away from child support and their kids.. Just because you don't acknowledge the elephant in the room don't mean he's not there.

Oh that's f'in brilliant, all black men are irresponsible, self hating, lowlives, that pay child support. Why are you people here so catch up on race. How about this we have a thread about sending our young men and women to college, instructing them on how to build a family (by example),and creating a real black community here instead of verbal bashing each other over the head and pointing out if others mistakes. You either build or you destroy, Red or Blue pill.

trueasiaticblackman wrote:

It seems a bit strange to me but I see a lot of Black Men with non Black Women apparently rasing and taking care of non Black Kids???
It seems a bit odd to me that a lot of Black Men will run from their responsibilities as a Dad, but they turn around and embrace this role when they hook up with non Black Women...
I see these cats walking around in Best Buy and Walmart like they're in Bliss with white and hispanic kids on their backs walking right beside these kids mother smiling like chesser cats???
I don't really understand it, if you embrace a father figure typa role, why not just stay with your baby mammas and take care of your own kids? LMBAO....

Your post makes no sense. You have NO facts to back up anything you're talking about. Everything in your post is total speculation about the lives of these people, who they are and what their relationship is. Nobody has a problem with bm being criticized. We get it all the time from all sides. If it's legitimate then it's acceptable. But this is just a bunch of shooting from the hip without any clear understanding about what you're talking about. If you were black I'd think you were a self-hater who blames and criticizes bm for things you're GUESSING they did without any proof whatsoever or without even ASKING them what their situation is...lol.

Carol wrote:

At family gatherings they should be shunned...
They are unhealthy for the black community.

I guess your hate rants is what's best for the black community.

Jcookie wrote:

I don't have kids, lol. Babysitted my brothers friend who just happened to be white, smh. It was awkward to be seen with him and his mom because people would assume I was dating her, disgusting. I don't date women with kids and I hate when people assume that I am. She is old enough to be my mom, Jesus.

I think you're full of sht, personally.

If his mom was there,

... why were you "babysitting"?

as the mother of a white son i can tell you i would NEVER put a black man in a position of authority over my baby boy. NEVER. if anything happened between me and my husband that would not even be an option though as i am not attracted to black men HOWEVER i would NEVER do that to my son.

and any white woman doing this is total and complete garbage and should have her children removed from her custody immediately.

trigga11 wrote:

<quoted text>Those are a few personal experiences of yours. My personal experience is different. It's very uncommon to see a black man with a non black child. That just doesn't happen very often. Anyway, I'll attempt to answer your question. When I guy is dating a woman he has to deal with her kids weather their black or non black.

This foolishness about "they don't take care of their own black kids but they take care of some hispanic or white or asian woman's kids" is just out of line. This is the kind of disrespect that bm get that other people think is cool...How about this? "He provides for his own kids as well as playing daddy to his asian or latin girlfriends kis..." Is that too hard for people? yes it is. It would require people treating bm fairly and non-judgementally. And you know we can't EVER have that.

Carol wrote:

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They're embarrassing and should be divorced from the black community....
most whites don't like them no more than they did prior to integration...
they're using these simpletons to push white supremacy....
it would be different if you saw them out cheesing with black kids and blk women....
but when they're with black kids and women... they're impatient, ignorant....
treason is not accepted in any culture but black....
these men need to be shunned by all black women including their mothers, family members.
They're a threat to the well being and EXTREMELY irrevant to the black community...
they no longer belong in the blk community.

awesome!! my sentiments exactly. no deserter shall be allowed to live among us.

Carol wrote:

At family gatherings they should be shunned...
They are unhealthy for the black community.

i REFUSE to deal with a relative because of this. hes actually married to a non-black woman.

he claims he is sad because i and others don't visit him and his family in florida. i do love him but i REJECT what he has done.

you should see his two fat, ugly little bi-racial girls!! talkin about come visit them!!!! he couldn't even get a descent looking white woman to mate with.

lawd ham mercy!!!!!

Desmond Sandiford wrote:

<quoted text>This foolishness about "they don't take care of their own black kids but they take care of some hispanic or white or asian woman's kids" is just out of line. This is the kind of disrespect that bm get that other people think is cool...How about this? "He provides for his own kids as well as playing daddy to his asian or latin girlfriends kis..." Is that too hard for people? yes it is. It would require people treating bm fairly and non-judgementally. And you know we can't EVER have that.

Black men should not have to deal with all this disrespect. I expect that type of behavior from non blacks and black women. But to see one of our participating in this racism that effects us all is truly disgusting. Not mention that his whole argument was baseless. It's crazy how every feel they have the right to judge us but don't want to be judged. As black men we really need to stick together.