why do sooo many black men prefer white women instead of an educ. sistah!!

When im driving I cant help but notice that there are soo many bm/w ww in FL where I live. What is it with them. I mean yes there are some very pretty caucasion women in the world but still there are soo many georgeous black women also.
But what really caught my mind was when I saw the cutest black guy with this scragly hair white woman.... and I was light WOW..... is it because these women are easy becuase there better or am i hating.......but I highly doubt the last two.
sooo please help me to understand brothers!!!!

Well, it has to do with these brothers having self hatred and low self worth since they were never appreciated by black women when they were younger and I think that these black men are fed up with black women's narrow minded preference for thugs and attititude to the point where they decided to seek out these white woman since they see them as easier to hook up with and that they will appreciate them for who they are. Even though there are somce conscious educated black women out there waiting for them, these brothers have just completeley given up on all black women, including them. Even worse is the fact that even the beautiful educated sistas want black men for thugs! What's up with that? I remember a year ago when I was at Bowie State University, alot of educated black women there wanted thugs and I was like WTF? Don't these black women realize that these men are no good and are likely to abuse, rape, and steal from them? I wanted to hook up with one but they were already taken by thugs, and I was blown about that. But yeah, black men just want white women since they are easier to hook up with and that they are easy going and accept black men for they are.

-Gabrielle- wrote:

When im driving I cant help but notice that there are soo many bm/w ww in FL where I live. What is it with them. I mean yes there are some very pretty caucasion women in the world but still there are soo many georgeous black women also.
But what really caught my mind was when I saw the cutest black guy with this scragly hair white woman.... and I was light WOW..... is it because these women are easy becuase there better or am i hating.......but I highly doubt the last two.
sooo please help me to understand brothers!!!!

they obviously find them more attractive..it's what they want.They couldn't get them then when they wanted to.The black race is basically falling apart but hey there's not much we can do about that.Maybe one day things wouldn't be so problematic.

Mack the Great wrote:

Well, it has to do with these brothers having self hatred and low self worth since they were never appreciated by black women when they were younger and I think that these black men are fed up with black women's narrow minded preference for thugs and attititude to the point where they decided to seek out these white woman since they see them as easier to hook up with and that they will appreciate them for who they are. Even though there are somce conscious educated black women out there waiting for them, these brothers have just completeley given up on all black women, including them. Even worse is the fact that even the beautiful educated sistas want black men for thugs! What's up with that? I remember a year ago when I was at Bowie State University, alot of educated black women there wanted thugs and I was like WTF? Don't these black women realize that these men are no good and are likely to abuse, rape, and steal from them? I wanted to hook up with one but they were already taken by thugs, and I was blown about that. But yeah, black men just want white women since they are easier to hook up with and that they are easy going and accept black men for they are.

I know it's pretty sad,most thugs creep me out.But some educated black men want their woman to look a certain way....they tend to be more picky...so I'm thinking should I get a guy that's in between lol.

Candella88 wrote:

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I know it's pretty sad,most thugs creep me out.But some educated black men want their woman to look a certain way....they tend to be more picky...so I'm thinking should I get a guy that's in between lol.

I despise of thugs with a passion because of their immoral behavior and the way they treat you black women and I'm proud of you for realizng that these kinds of black men are no good because of that and also since it's not everyday that we have conscious black women like you making the right descision and being aware of this problem. You're right, I've noticed that alot of sistas would like their black men to be a mix of educated and a thugs and even though I don't go near even acting like and dressing like one, I prefer to be myself. Being myself has let the black women at my job recognize me since I stand out from all the other black men at work that are thugs. I have no problem being myself and If i were to ever meet you Candella, you would feel no fear or harm from me whatsoever since I dress normally and don't appear like your stereotypical thug that are known to be trouble makers, criminals, and instegators. I like to wear plain colored T-shirts and those Japanese anime dress shirts and you'll feel relieved with peace of mind that I'm not going to harm you or steal from you if I approach you since I don't dress like thugs.

it's kind of sad that all you could see was the physical on that woman --- maybe she was just having a bad hair day HAHA.. but seriously we can't reduce 2 people's relationship down to skin color, here in toronto you see tonnes of mixed couples - black man with white women - white men with black women, asians, indians - everything!.. it's nothing to get so twisted up over, i am white and i date an african man ( i say african because he's from chad)- and it is safe to say that when we're together we're not thinking about skin color of all things! haha-- seriously though girl - you need to not worry so much about what goes on around you, and who's dating who and i am sure you will find love from where you least expect it - and it may just wind up being a gorgeous black man, like it seems you want :)

Mack the Great wrote:

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I despise of thugs with a passion because of their immoral behavior and the way they treat you black women and I'm proud of you for realizng that these kinds of black men are no good because of that and also since it's not everyday that we have conscious black women like you making the right descision and being aware of this problem. You're right, I've noticed that alot of sistas would like their black men to be a mix of educated and a thugs and even though I don't go near even acting like and dressing like one, I prefer to be myself. Being myself has let the black women at my job recognize me since I stand out from all the other black men at work that are thugs. I have no problem being myself and If i were to ever meet you Candella, you would feel no fear or harm from me whatsoever since I dress normally and don't appear like your stereotypical thug that are known to be trouble makers, criminals, and instegators. I like to wear plain colored T-shirts and those Japanese anime dress shirts and you'll feel relieved with peace of mind that I'm not going to harm you or steal from you if I approach you since I don't dress like thugs.

I never really dated a thug they are usually in between I guess because I'm not good enough for the pro and educated men.I'm in college and trying to make something of myself so it's not like I'm looking for a man to take of me financially.That's great being yourself.I need to improve myself though,there are some things I'm not too happy with myself I could do better at alot of things.I haven't practiced my instrument in a month, and I need to look for scholarships when I transfer.I want to be a performer on the side.

Candella88 wrote:

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I never really dated a thug they are usually in between I guess because I'm not good enough for the pro and educated men.I'm in college and trying to make something of myself so it's not like I'm looking for a man to take of me financially.That's great being yourself.I need to improve myself though,there are some things I'm not too happy with myself I could do better at alot of things.I haven't practiced my instrument in a month, and I need to look for scholarships when I transfer.I want to be a performer on the side.

I wouldsn't say that you're not good for the educated black men but just not all that attracted to there personalities, may be? Correct me if I'm wrong. You sound like a very intelligent black woman and I think you would make for an excellent partner with an educated brother. Where do you plan on transfering to?

Mack the Great wrote:

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I wouldsn't say that you're not good for the educated black men but just not all that attracted to there personalities, may be? Correct me if I'm wrong. You sound like a very intelligent black woman and I think you would make for an excellent partner with an educated brother. Where do you plan on transfering to?

I wanted to Go to California on a instrumental scholarship and take up theatre so I can be a movie producer.I want to take some people with me.I like their personalities it's just mine isnt compatible with them.I was in a relationship with a black male who was very intelligent but after I told him I wasn't latina which he thought I was he started treating me different maybe it wasn't that but he definetly changed after I told him that but it started to grow serious but then he dumped me for a white girl..it hurt me because I loved him and I loved the poems he wrote me.

As a handsome Caribbean black man,I am not appreciated by black women,except for my mother and sisters.I have never been in prison nor do I have any criminal record.Most Black women that I that I have had the honor of knowing prefer the brother with the criminal mind set or the gangsta type.I am not saying all Blackwomen are that way,but most of them are that way.Nice guys do finish last.Nothing will ever change.

Candella88 wrote:

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I wanted to Go to California on a instrumental scholarship and take up theatre so I can be a movie producer.I want to take some people with me.I like their personalities it's just mine isnt compatible with them.I was in a relationship with a black male who was very intelligent but after I told him I wasn't latina which he thought I was he started treating me different maybe it wasn't that but he definetly changed after I told him that but it started to grow serious but then he dumped me for a white girl..it hurt me because I loved him and I loved the poems he wrote me.

Sorry for the late response Candellla. You had your sights set on scholarship for musical instruments and be a movie producer eh? There's good money in that and I wish you well with good luck to that. You can take others with you? That's cool! It would've been good if you had found some others that may have had the same personality as you so that you would all get along and everything but I' sure you'll find some others in due time. I feel sorry for your last relationship with that educated brother you had for a boyfriend. He was so perfect for you until he had wished that you was a Latina . That's kinda phucked up. He must've been a self hating brother with a preference for latina women and not even for half black half latina women as he thought you were one. I'm sure the poems he written you and still have are mementos of your relationship with him. Did he also leave you because he stereotyped you or something?

I think the big reason behind AAs dating outside of their race its because of self-hate, plain and simple. I’m not saying all, but most.

Lady1st wrote:

I think the big reason behind AAs dating outside of their race its because of self-hate, plain and simple. I’m not saying all, but most.

And you're 100% right with that and there's no doubt about it. Having low self worth also plays a key role in it too. This is why blacks need to know their history and get rid of the hip hop culture lifestyle that have severely strained the realtionships between us black men and women.

Mack the Great wrote:

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And you're 100% right with that and there's no doubt about it. Having low self worth also plays a key role in it too. This is why blacks need to know their history and get rid of the hip hop culture lifestyle that have severely strained the realtionships between us black men and women.

Glad to see that there’s still some broths out there that haven’t been whitewashed/brainwashed.

Lady1st wrote:

I think the big reason behind AAs dating outside of their race its because of self-hate, plain and simple. I’m not saying all, but most.

Sometimes I think the only reason some people date within the same race is because they lack the social skills to understand other people and are easily intimidated. They lack the ability to see others as themselves.

A person is still a person afterall.

Mack the Great wrote:

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Sorry for the late response Candellla. You had your sights set on scholarship for musical instruments and be a movie producer eh? There's good money in that and I wish you well with good luck to that. You can take others with you? That's cool! It would've been good if you had found some others that may have had the same personality as you so that you would all get along and everything but I' sure you'll find some others in due time. I feel sorry for your last relationship with that educated brother you had for a boyfriend. He was so perfect for you until he had wished that you was a Latina . That's kinda phucked up. He must've been a self hating brother with a preference for latina women and not even for half black half latina women as he thought you were one. I'm sure the poems he written you and still have are mementos of your relationship with him. Did he also leave you because he stereotyped you or something?

my parents don't think my goals are realistic so I'm going to go into marketing or business..something like that.I think its good he dumped me I was a sophomore in high school and he was a freshmen....he skipped a year and his new girlfriend was a freshmen too so it made more sense since I was younger and immature..not as smart.His ex girlfriend got mad at me too...so we were going to break up anyway.

Lady1st wrote:

<quoted text> Glad to see that there’s still some broths out there that haven’t been whitewashed/brainwashed.

Thanks Lady1st. In order to make these bros feel proud to be black men, they gotta know their complete, corrected history and need to be appreciated by black women regardless of their personalities so they can stick to dating black women only. I know that we can make this happen.

Mack the Great wrote:

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Sorry for the late response Candellla. You had your sights set on scholarship for musical instruments and be a movie producer eh? There's good money in that and I wish you well with good luck to that. You can take others with you? That's cool! It would've been good if you had found some others that may have had the same personality as you so that you would all get along and everything but I' sure you'll find some others in due time. I feel sorry for your last relationship with that educated brother you had for a boyfriend. He was so perfect for you until he had wished that you was a Latina . That's kinda phucked up. He must've been a self hating brother with a preference for latina women and not even for half black half latina women as he thought you were one. I'm sure the poems he written you and still have are mementos of your relationship with him. Did he also leave you because he stereotyped you or something?

freshmen in college I mean.

KIP wrote:

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Sometimes I think the only reason some people date within the same race is because they lack the social skills to understand other people and are easily intimidated. They lack the ability to see others as themselves.
A person is still a person afterall.

I wasn’t saying interracial R. was wrong.

You seem to be hyper sensitive on this subject.

Read the word that are there not the one you want to see.