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luke
Edmonton, Canada
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hey my names Luke, Im ur typical white guy, play hockey, like all sorts of music..cant dance quirky i've recently met a girl, shez really hot, down to earth, we joke around, shez a blast. She has the best personallity, i really dig her and i want to start something between us tht's more then friendship, she never talks about her love life, so it makes it hard for me to send her signals. The thing is this girl is black i just dont kno if shez would be interested in me cuz im white. do black girls like white guys? and are their any white guy dating or who have dated black girls that could help me? Thx ur advise is greatly apreciated.
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person
New York, NY
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This is how it is wrote: Not many black guys want to work. don't be absurd.
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Spice
Portland, OR
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I have dated only one white guy in all my days, and i found out that any man who gives a woman attention and the love that they need, it doesn't matter if they are white or black. By choice I prefer a Black Man, but if a white man showed interest, then i would give attention to that. But I found out that most white men seen very apprehensive when it comes to dating or asking a black woman out.
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Dreamdefendery
Milwaukee, WI
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luke wrote: hey my names Luke, Im ur typical white guy, play hockey, like all sorts of music..cant dance quirky i've recently met a girl, shez really hot, down to earth, we joke around, shez a blast. She has the best personallity, i really dig her and i want to start something between us tht's more then friendship, she never talks about her love life, so it makes it hard for me to send her signals. The thing is this girl is black i just dont kno if shez would be interested in me cuz im white. do black girls like white guys? and are their any white guy dating or who have dated black girls that could help me? Thx ur advise is greatly apreciated. Black women do not look at color as a condition of friendship. If we did, the answer to this quandry of yours would be ...Hell NO!
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Dreamdefendery
Milwaukee, WI
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Southern U Grad wrote: <quoted text>How right you are! I think Farrakhan speaks the truth as do Bill cosby. Thing is Whites don't like the message because it makes them nervous. Farrakhan and I share this view.... If blacks would love each other, support each other and quit trying to mimick these Caucasions... we would have much more stable families and communities.
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ridin dirty
Altus, OK
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Kelly wrote: <quoted text>
You must be a pathetic, sick and unloved human being to say such evil things. To all the black people who read this, most white people don't think such evil thoughts. Please don't lump us in with this evil man. I could not agree with you more. That person is straight up ignorant!!
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History
Boston, MA
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To: John Last time i checked... Black people built the country you love so much...
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peter
Grünberg, Germany
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i am white and from germany and i think that black girls are so lovely... i would love to date a black girl especially a US girl...but there are not here...:(... keep indepentend.. my nubian princesses... kiss from germany and to all u racists over there... i am german and most of the germans do hate racism... so dont attack those ppl who build up ur country...
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gabby
Whittier, CA
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um... I'm a black and I date white guys. i think color doesn't matter as long as i'm treated correctly.
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gabby
Whittier, CA
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lol oh and that comment by Daniel was the exact same thing I was thinking... about the Germans hating racism.
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csteve
Sturgeon Bay, WI
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I would like to comment on Bob's stats of black unwed mothers. First, I am single African American mother in an absent father situation. When Causcasians throw these stats at us it does. Let's not forget one thing we were and still are an oppresed people. Just not so long ago we were not allowed to marry. We were not allowed to read or write. The list go on. It is no excuse or justification in repeating the same cycle but it is a reason. Our men were taking from their families. So Dear Bob you come from a generation of "family values", you're priviliged to have that all of us were not they were taken from us. In saying that, I happened to come from a middle-class two-parent home, where my mother stayed home to raise us. My son's father did not and being a rebellious young person I believed when he said he would marry me. I will get a lot of flack for saying this but it is true, White men are taught to take care of their responsibility Black men are seldomly not. Black women tend to be responsible, couple that with an irresponsible man and love you make life-altering decisions. If you continue to read stats, we dominate the workforce and college population compared to these absent fathers. I keep my son involved in many school activities and instill in him family values. There are a list of successful African American men raised by their Single Black mothers who are not menaces to society. No offense, some White and Affluent Black people like to pretend slavery didn't exist or its ramifications are not prevalent. We are all paying for the sins of our generations before us. Let's acknowledge that with solutions instead of stats. One solution is not to label these kids, but understand it's just a different way of life than yours. You make these kids feel like their nothing and they do nothing. Fortunately, I do live in a pre dominately White town, but instead of labeling my son, they sometimes include him in family trips and help me with rides when I have to work, they don't judge me, they help.
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csteve
Sturgeon Bay, WI
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Oh! I am sorry, I got on my soapbox and didn't even answer the topic. Yes, I would date a White guy, any guy who accepts my son.
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Vwade
Arlington, KY
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i'm black and right now i'm inlove with a white guy and to be honest, i have more fun with him. just don't be afraid to ask her out, just do it, and i bet you she probably likes you too. it was the same with me.
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Susie
Basingstoke, UK
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Bob wrote: Well, all I have to say is Fathers Day is the most confusing day of the year in the black community with a 70%+ illegitimacy rate. If blacks REALLY wanted to change, they would listen to people like Bill Cosby instead of racist nuts like Farrakan, Jesse Jackson, Al Sharpton, Harry Belafonte et al These blacks are news to me. I do not know any black person unemployed, i know a lot of whites who drink and take drugs all day. My friend a black man will never look after someones child, so this crazy racist attitude is uncalled for. If you do not understand ask, people like you are very dangerous in society.
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Kenyaspeaks
Kansas City, MO
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Hello...I am actually a woman who is dating a white man. He is wonderful and my best friend. I say some of the most passionate things for black people that most white people would find offensive, but he listens because he wants to learn about me. He is actually not an American white guy, so he thinks "outside" of the box than most American white guys. And I am not doing it because I hate my black men. He was the first man that caught my eye and he caught mine and we both connected. This was especially during a time when I was so passionately opposed to the entire white race! Never in a million years did I think that I would fall in love with a white man. Not with my mindset! That's why I learned, through him, to take each person as they come and to look at their hearts. luke wrote: hey my names Luke, Im ur typical white guy, play hockey, like all sorts of music..cant dance quirky i've recently met a girl, shez really hot, down to earth, we joke around, shez a blast. She has the best personallity, i really dig her and i want to start something between us tht's more then friendship, she never talks about her love life, so it makes it hard for me to send her signals. The thing is this girl is black i just dont kno if shez would be interested in me cuz im white. do black girls like white guys? and are their any white guy dating or who have dated black girls that could help me? Thx ur advise is greatly apreciated.
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Romaeio
Hamilton, Canada
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I'm from canada and it seems that black people here are more driven than in the states...
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amused
Dallas, TX
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I am a white guy - and I definitely find black women attractive. There are lots of dedicated Christian, quite attractive, black women out there - and you know what, in general Black women tend to have a much better attitude than white women. I hepe they know there are lots of white guys who admire them - though being the uptight sort ourselves we don't admit to needing anyone (just kidding of course....)
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peter
Stadtallendorf, Germany
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daniel have u ever been in germanyor europe ??? dont talk about things u dont know... there are racist allover the world and the dumbest are from the states.. anyway... big love to the black girls
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2tru
Houston, TX
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peter wrote: daniel have u ever been in germanyor europe ??? dont talk about things u dont know... there are racist allover the world and the dumbest are from the states.. anyway... big love to the black girls Really ??? That's funny, I don't remember " the states " being the dumbest racist that attempted to exterminate an entire race of humans.. Hummm now who was that ? Got any Ideas Peter ? Anyone else remember if it was " the states " that murdered millions of people while their citizens just stood by and watched ? Seems like it rymed with Griminey or Gramereny or some thing like that...
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Mathew Philip
Lonavale, India
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Hey guys .Matt here ,I am an engineer from India all of 26.Was born and brought up in Kuwait though .Hey racists out there,take a hike.Does colour matter?.Hey Peter;Hats off to you .These racists are losers .They stink.Black ,White ,Yellow or Brown;If you like someone,follow your heart.Don't be apprehensive, guys.Miscegenation is one way of getting rid of racism. God bless .
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