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Which race of females make a better mother?

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#112
May 7, 2008
 
tigress aka Tiger wrote:
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I accept your apology. I am just so frustrated with the people on here.
thanks.

now in my opinion it's unfair for people to just assume things about other people based solely on their race. and that goes for all races. i get frustrated when people just assume that since i'm white i must be some racist asshole who longs to join the kkk. it's not fair.

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#113
May 7, 2008
 
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You have a lot of nerve being self-righteous and judgmental.And for kids that are born out-of wedlock,maybe some of them do worse at things because people like you make them feel like something is wrong with them. Oh yeah,bastard means not having a father, ALL children have a father,otherwise they wouldn't be here.So when people like you use the term bastard,you are just showing your ignorance.
Get a clue!

And buy a dictionary!

In every part of the world including Africa a bastard is an illegitimate birth, before marriage, and is considered to be a scandal.

Bastard \Bas"tard\, a.
1. Begotten and born out of lawful matrimony; illegitimate.
See Bastard, n., note.
[1913 Webster]

Merriam-Webster's Online Thesaurus

Entry Word: bastard
Function: noun
Text: 1 one born out of wedlock <bore a bastard before she was fifteen>
Synonyms by-blow, catch colt, chance child, come-by-chance, filius nullius, filius populi, illegitimate, love child, mamzer (or momzer or momser), natural child, whoreson, woods colt

Century Dictionary, 1927-1931 -- bas-tard (bas'tard).[OF. bastard (F. batard), <bast, pack-saddle, E. bat4.] a. Illegitimage in birth; hence, irregular; mongrel; inferior; spurious; not genuine; specif. of other than the standard form, size, style, etc.

If it is self-righteous and judgmental to have standards, I am glad to be self-righteous and judgmental and more. I am glad that my grandparents were raised right (self-righteous and judgmental) my parents were raised right (self-righteous and judgmental) and I was raised right (self-righteous and judgmental) and my kids will be raised right (self-righteous and judgmental).

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#114
May 7, 2008
 
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Will somebody please define what in the hell makes a good parent!!??!! I don't have a fuggin clue!!??!! I bet 1/2 of you self righteous proclaimed ignoramuses don't either. I don't believe one being a good parent solidifies their position in Heaven. So again, what the hell qualifies one as being a good parent. I am positive that if I were to make a personal appearance at any given one of you so-called good parents for every 1 thing you proclaim as parental positive reinforcement - I'd find atleast 10 things to prove all you wrong!!
Molding and mentoring your children to become # 1 in all aspects of life.

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#115
May 7, 2008
 
I find it interesting everyone is quick to change the subject, but no one will attempt to explain the three or four biggest issues that bring serious doubt about parenting.

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#116
May 7, 2008
 
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I find it interesting everyone is quick to change the subject, but no one will attempt to explain the three or four biggest issues that bring serious doubt about parenting.
so far i've pretty much agreed with your posts, but i'm not sure exactly what you mean here.

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#117
May 7, 2008
 
Preppy wrote:
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Get a clue!
And buy a dictionary!
In every part of the world including Africa a bastard is an illegitimate birth, before marriage, and is considered to be a scandal.
Bastard \Bas"tard\, a.
1. Begotten and born out of lawful matrimony; illegitimate.
See Bastard, n., note.
[1913 Webster]
Merriam-Webster's Online Thesaurus
Entry Word: bastard
Function: noun
Text: 1 one born out of wedlock <bore a bastard before she was fifteen>
Synonyms by-blow, catch colt, chance child, come-by-chance, filius nullius, filius populi, illegitimate, love child, mamzer (or momzer or momser), natural child, whoreson, woods colt
Century Dictionary, 1927-1931 -- bas-tard (bas'tard).[OF. bastard (F. batard), <bast, pack-saddle, E. bat4.] a. Illegitimage in birth; hence, irregular; mongrel; inferior; spurious; not genuine; specif. of other than the standard form, size, style, etc.
If it is self-righteous and judgmental to have standards, I am glad to be self-righteous and judgmental and more. I am glad that my grandparents were raised right (self-righteous and judgmental) my parents were raised right (self-righteous and judgmental) and I was raised right (self-righteous and judgmental) and my kids will be raised right (self-righteous and judgmental).
Well as long as people feel justified in being self-righteous and hypocritical, then I will continue to be the way that I am.Nobody should change then.
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#118
May 8, 2008
 
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B***h you are dead wrong. My mom is not a damn crackhead and neither are any older black women I know. The white women I see are always picking up drugs from a nearby drug house, so please.
the white women are buying drugs from the nearby drug house? you have a nearby drug house!? are the sellers black? whose wrong in this situation? & get a new neighborhood, hun. raising a child in a neighborhood like this shows bad parenting one race or the other. go to school, get a job, get out of the hood, so that your children have a chance of a live above either the streets or minimum wage. i have a wide range of friends, white, black & shades in between. the friends who live in an unhealthy low-income neighborhood have children that are less developmentally advanced (i won't say they aren't as smart as the other kids their age that live in more affluent areas, that would not be p.c., though it is true to some extent & i just said it)it is not to say those children in low income areas don't hold the same potential, they just don't get the oppurtunities to develop as the children of higher income parents. race doesn't have so much to do with it as mindset of the parents. in conclusion - the better parents are the ones who provide a healthy invironment & high standards for their families, not people of a superior race, but those of a superior resolve.

who's on top?

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#120
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the white women are buying drugs from the nearby drug house? you have a nearby drug house!? are the sellers black? whose wrong in this situation? & get a new neighborhood, hun. raising a child in a neighborhood like this shows bad parenting one race or the other. go to school, get a job, get out of the hood, so that your children have a chance of a live above either the streets or minimum wage. i have a wide range of friends, white, black & shades in between. the friends who live in an unhealthy low-income neighborhood have children that are less developmentally advanced (i won't say they aren't as smart as the other kids their age that live in more affluent areas, that would not be p.c., though it is true to some extent & i just said it)it is not to say those children in low income areas don't hold the same potential, they just don't get the oppurtunities to develop as the children of higher income parents. race doesn't have so much to do with it as mindset of the parents. in conclusion - the better parents are the ones who provide a healthy invironment & high standards for their families, not people of a superior race, but those of a superior resolve.
who's on top?
I do agree with you on most points, but..
A lot of the time, if you live in the hood...it's because your parents did, and their parents did, and so on. You can't help it you live there most of the time. But, yeah, you'd think that they'd WANT to get out of there you know?

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#121
May 8, 2008
 
jessica wrote:
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the white women are buying drugs from the nearby drug house? you have a nearby drug house!? are the sellers black? whose wrong in this situation? & get a new neighborhood, hun. raising a child in a neighborhood like this shows bad parenting one race or the other. go to school, get a job, get out of the hood, so that your children have a chance of a live above either the streets or minimum wage. i have a wide range of friends, white, black & shades in between. the friends who live in an unhealthy low-income neighborhood have children that are less developmentally advanced (i won't say they aren't as smart as the other kids their age that live in more affluent areas, that would not be p.c., though it is true to some extent & i just said it)it is not to say those children in low income areas don't hold the same potential, they just don't get the oppurtunities to develop as the children of higher income parents. race doesn't have so much to do with it as mindset of the parents. in conclusion - the better parents are the ones who provide a healthy invironment & high standards for their families, not people of a superior race, but those of a superior resolve.
who's on top?
Uh...I'm 18 and I don't have any kids. Actually, the neighborhood is majority Mexican and the drug house is around the corner, not directly on my street.My street also has white,blacks and asains living here also.The street is not perfect,but It is FAR better than it was when we moved there 15 years ago.

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#122
May 8, 2008
 
Let me restart this again for those of you that missed it the first time. Race has nothing to do with being a good mother. A good mother is a woman that loves, nurtures and cares well for her children. This is usually obtained by the person being loved, nutured and cared by their mother. It repeats the cycle generation to generation. However it can be learned by parenting classes or from other role models other than your birth mother. The problem is alot of women of all colors and races had bad mothers and this prepretuates into their parenting skills and their ability to be a good mother. Color has absolutely nothing to do with it.

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#123
May 8, 2008
 
S/B: restate not restart..my bad
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#124
May 8, 2008
 
my mother is black most black women are single parents and there doing a damn good job
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#125
May 8, 2008
 
most black mothers are single mothers like my mother

anyone that can can raise a child by herself and has her children suceed expeccially in a bad neighborhood
makes that person 50x the parent

my mother is workin 3 jobs i only see her in the morning and she's always sleeping
ilove her because for me she does the best she can, I remeber when she could only afford one bed for me and my sister and her to sleep in

she would sleep on the floor and us two on the bed

it's hard for her
and i really do feel for other black mothers in her situation

if i was nominating someone for best mother award it would be her

plus, stastics don't show the type of conditions black women have to raise their children in

and yes every statistic may be agianst me, but trust me in a year i'm going to go to college and you best bet i will suceed.

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#126
May 8, 2008
 
My baby's mom is white,my baby has never been happier,she is the happiest baby in the universe...

black moms, they just dont do much effort,my girlfriend buys all the guiding books,she always reads manuals,black mothers never do that,i have a sister that has 2 kids,she is a good mom right,but she does not walk that EXRA mile to be the supermom...

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#127
May 8, 2008
 
Afro-MadBoy wrote:
My baby's mom is white,my baby has never been happier,she is the happiest baby in the universe...
black moms, they just dont do much effort,my girlfriend buys all the guiding books,she always reads manuals,black mothers never do that,i have a sister that has 2 kids,she is a good mom right,but she does not walk that EXRA mile to be the supermom...
i see....

ur sister is like your mama

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#128
May 8, 2008
 
mikehuntusa wrote:
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so far i've pretty much agreed with your posts, but i'm not sure exactly what you mean here.
What I was trying to say, is that people are intentionally or un-intentionally using the standard tricks discussing the person instead of the subject. In particular, changing the subject by attacking the person is the standard trick to avoid discussing an argument in an intelligent manner.

Why are these following statistics so high and pervasive:
~ low college attainment;
~ single mothers;
~ crime; and
~ obesity.

Some of these statistics are so high, you have to wonder are people intentional engaging in certain activities, is it a typo, and etc.

A good example or perfect analogy would be the Obama and Clinton debate that ABC held in Philadelphia last week or a few weeks ago. ABC wasted everyone’s time (almost an entire hour) by not discussing or debating the issues (the economy, banks reducing the number of student loans they issue, illegal immigration, the list goes on and on). But ABC went down the path of engaging in abusive attacks, pointing to circumstantial relationships, investigating circumstantial relationships, investigating fictitious relationships, and so forth. Not one peep about anything of substance for almost one hour.
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#129
May 8, 2008
 
i change wrote:
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i see....
ur sister is like your mama
insult

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#130
May 8, 2008
 
most western mothers are no good these days, yes the black ones too, if black mothers were so good, why are half are kids in jail. anyway to answer the question no race i better, i think africans are not as good as they use to be too. most western kids of all races dont even have respect for their parents.

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#131
May 8, 2008
 
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well said, lol

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#132
May 8, 2008
 
My mother is the best mother in the whole wide world. The rest of the mothers can step aside and bow down to the mother of the universe.
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