Why do good looking black women like white men so much?

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Marisa

Garland, TX

#1 Sep 30, 2012
Everywhere I look, whenever I see a good looking black lady, she is always with a good looking white man! Sometimes Mexican, and even a few asians, but they are never with black men. I often see black women alone, like even that is better than a black man! Why is this?

And most black men I see even attractive ones, seem to pick average looking white girls, and act very proud of this??

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Marisa

Garland, TX

#3 Sep 30, 2012
GibsMeADollah, you sound very racist and so does your nick name!
Lemme hold a dolla

Hollywood, FL

#4 Sep 30, 2012
Marisa wrote:
GibsMeADollah, you sound very racist and so does your nick name!
Leave him alone. He beez ma cuz!
Marisa

Garland, TX

#6 Sep 30, 2012
....I was hoping for comments from non racists!
Kitty Belle

United States

#8 Sep 30, 2012
*ignores the racist idiots* Because us attractive black women usually have standards and prefer nicer guys who will treat us right. Typically, they tend to be white. =)

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Marisa

Garland, TX

#9 Sep 30, 2012
Kitty, really??

I have met some nice black men at work before. Do all attractive black women think mostly white men only can treat them well?

“#BlackWomenRise”

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#10 Sep 30, 2012
Stop being ignorant. Some Black people have too much self hate. Our race and culture is a beautiful one, and I would never believe that as a whole we'd be such a twisted group that EVERY eligible or desirable Black male or female would be with White people. That idea reinforces a notion that only the best blacks are good enough for White people, and that's not true.

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Kitty Belle

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#11 Sep 30, 2012
Self hate? How does my comment represent self hate?
Kitty Belle

United States

#12 Sep 30, 2012
And no Marisa, there are alot of good black men out there. They are typically hard to find though. And alot have gone IR.
Marisa

Garland, TX

#13 Sep 30, 2012
PinkPearl I have seen lots of beauty in black culture too, in the arts and struggles that have been overcome....Why do you say their is self hate in blacks?

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#14 Sep 30, 2012
Marisa wrote:
PinkPearl I have seen lots of beauty in black culture too, in the arts and struggles that have been overcome....Why do you say their is self hate in blacks?
I mean the self hate is in the people who try to belittle one another in our community. We're ALL Black, so stop trying to make Black men, or Black women feel bad about it. White people are not better than us, but that's the rhetoric being used here. Any Black person who tries to hold White superiority over another Black person to make them feel bad about themselves is just plain sick. Have a little pride. I have no problem with White people, and I have no problem with being Black, so I can see this easily.
Marisa

Garland, TX

#15 Sep 30, 2012
OMG, its so silly to consider one rrace better than another, but it seems so common with certain black women. Its like that with asian women sometimes too. So sad...
cmd6241983

United States

#17 Oct 28, 2012
It's atrocious to down talk your own race & favor the others, you can be a black & be a ghetto hoodrat & you can be white & be trailer park trash. Enough with the self hate. If anyone perfer to date outside their race more power to them anyone have a problem with it should mind their businesses. We're living in a new generation now & the 1880's are long over. In God's eyes we are one no matter if your black, yellow, white, brown or red. We all have rights to make our decision on rather we prefer to date outside or within our ethnicity
sayitaintsomrcho

Las Vegas, NV

#18 Oct 28, 2012
Marisa wrote:
Everywhere I look, whenever I see a good looking black lady, she is always with a good looking white man! Sometimes Mexican, and even a few asians, but they are never with black men. I often see black women alone, like even that is better than a black man! Why is this?
And most black men I see even attractive ones, seem to pick average looking white girls, and act very proud of this??
That's easy...some white man told them they looked good...that's all it takes.
sayitaintsomrcho

Las Vegas, NV

#19 Oct 28, 2012
GibsMeADollah wrote:
What are you talking about? There are no good looking black "women". Your question is invalid.
Evidentally you ain't sifted thru that cracker barrel y'all got goin' for you...99% of the white women the media says is beautiful...ain't...Julianne Hough and Taylor Swift (when she does something with that hair) are the only ones who are actually beautiful...the rest are clones and half clones of a extremely ugly prototype.
nomad

Los Angeles, CA

#20 Oct 28, 2012
Honestly I think much of it is about security.

Weman think of children and a home and feel that the prospects of having a husband a family and a home are greater with a responseable man.

Of course I could be wrong .
Prophet

United States

#21 Oct 28, 2012
I dated a few gals and learned game now I am riding solo.
truth

Valdosta, GA

#22 Oct 31, 2012
hey im a good blck men i go to college an i date white girls not that black girls are not hot i just like to date white girls so i can have a good wife and i kick it with alot of white guys and wen we talke about black girls they get real happy to talk about sex so balck girls wen you date white boys just pick the right ones
sayitaintsomrcho

Las Vegas, NV

#23 Oct 31, 2012
truth wrote:
hey im a good blck men i go to college an i date white girls not that black girls are not hot i just like to date white girls so i can have a good wife and i kick it with alot of white guys and wen we talke about black girls they get real happy to talk about sex so balck girls wen you date white boys just pick the right ones
Ha-ha-ha-a-aaaaaaaaah!!! L.I.A.R...Liar!!!!
cmd6241983

El Monte, CA

#24 Nov 1, 2012
I don't see anything wrong with dating interracially, but don't use as an excuse to throw black men or black women under the bus. It's asinine to her decent black men say they don't wanna date a black woman because they're loud, annoying, & act like hoodrats. Then you hear decent black women say they don't black men because they're aggressive, vulgar, & immature. I would love to date a white man because it's who I am. I'm just not physically attracted to black men. It's okay to love another race if you're not attracted to your own. There's a difference between dating interracially & not have physical attractions to your own, & dating interracially & commiting self hate.

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