For Ladies: Do Bad Boys have more sex appeal?

Well a few days ago this really cute black guy asked me for my number at Wendy's but he seemed really shy, it took him a while to finally approach me. I thought it was adorable but I gave him my friends number because he just wasn't my type. I like guys who are tough and have a great confidence level. Who can have the balls in the relationship, and are protective. I'm not looking for a jackass if that's what your thinking. I just get turned on SO easily by bad boys. I don't know why but its kind of a fetish and its mostly all I can think about these days. Nothings better than a sexy bad boy that doesn't take any sh*t lets be honest. A guy who isnt soft and is rebellious and so on! I'm pretty sure that's every girls fantasy.
Lol ladies I just want to know your opinion on this though.
Do bad boys have more sex appeal?
( I'm just wanting your opinions so please show some respect.)

Not for me personally

uknow they do that why u alway aftame jJahaha..

Majority of you black women want/love thugs! That's why so many of you hate us light skin black men because we are seen as "soft" to yall!

typical black woman, 10 years from now you will be crying "all black men are bad", will mistreat your SIX black male children that you have, and will be imploring all other black women to find a white man because they are "nicer"

Not "bad" confident guys.Bad guys get in trouble you don't wanna be getting phone calls from his azz in jail or him stealing your shid.Now if that's what you like that's you.A man that's rebellious often ends up in jail

Tumbling_Dice wrote:

Majority of you black women want/love thugs! That's why so many of you hate us light skin black men because we are seen as "soft" to yall!

Black women don't hate light skinned men.

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Bad boys are womanizers and playboys. I watch many of my girl friends get together with them only to be disappointed later on i.e "All men are Dogs", "... i caught him cheating", etc etc. My advice: Go for personality in a person when looking for a relationship

No not for me..

If I know a man is a so called bad boy, I get away quickly

Smart gurl lol

Southern Girl wrote:

No not for me..
If I know a man is a so called bad boy, I get away quickly

-patricia- wrote:

Smart gurl lol<quoted text>

and you know it lol

Im talking about bad as in a guy with a little rebellion in him, its attractive. Not that serious as in thug jail etc. No thankyou.
I've always been a good person. It won't hurt to live a little. Im not looking for a guy whose a jackass just one who won't be a push over.
Thats probably why I think about bad boys mostly.
I mean a tough guy who you know is going to protect you won't hurt.
Thats all I'm meaning by it.

Tumbling_Dice wrote:

Majority of you black women want/love thugs! That's why so many of you hate us light skin black men because we are seen as "soft" to yall!

I don't hate light skin men at all.(stereotype.) And I don't like thugs, and I don't love thugs. Bad boy doesn't necessarily mean thug all the time. Just a guy with a little rebellious side. You must live in a crazy area. Where I'm from there's nothing but mix and light skinned boys around me and yes I find them very attractive.

Im not attracted to bad boys, to me that equals stupidity and "thug" mentality. I am attracted to men. What most call manly. Rough hands from working hard, not one feminine bone in him, and not scared to grab my hair and....nevermind. You get what i mean

910disaster wrote:

Im not attracted to bad boys, to me that equals stupidity and "thug" mentality. I am attracted to men. What most call manly. Rough hands from working hard, not one feminine bone in him, and not scared to grab my hair and....nevermind. You get what i mean

I would grab your hair, smack you ass, and plunge in to you balls deep, repeatedly, for hours. Then flip you over, bend your legs behind your head, and go balls deep again, missionary, for hours.

Sweetiepie_1 wrote:

Im talking about bad as in a guy with a little rebellion in him, its attractive. Not that serious as in thug jail etc. No thankyou.
I've always been a good person. It won't hurt to live a little. Im not looking for a guy whose a jackass just one who won't be a push over.
Thats probably why I think about bad boys mostly.
I mean a tough guy who you know is going to protect you won't hurt.
Thats all I'm meaning by it.

so you be ok with beaten your azz to keep you "in line"? A bad boy doesn't want a "good girl" anyway.He wants a ride or die chick like himself.He would probably see you as a pushover and just use you for sex and money.

910disaster wrote:

Im not attracted to bad boys, to me that equals stupidity and "thug" mentality. I am attracted to men. What most call manly. Rough hands from working hard, not one feminine bone in him, and not scared to grab my hair and....nevermind. You get what i mean

Okay to you bad boy might mean thug and stupidity. It might not mean a guy who likes to take charge. Trust me I'm not a lady who gets ran over and goes after childish immature guys. Thats not my personality never has never will be. In my eyes a bad boy is a guy who is tough and protects you. Not a thug and a guy who goes to jail and so on. I get why you would think that though, most "bad boys." Are thugs. I'm taking about a man though. A Strong man is the way to define it. That takes care of his girl. That can pick you up like you weight two pounds lol and treat you like your his everything. And yea thanks for not getting into details, but I respect your opinion it makes sense.

Jack 300 wrote:

typical black woman, 10 years from now you will be crying "all black men are bad", will mistreat your SIX black male children that you have, and will be imploring all other black women to find a white man because they are "nicer"

C/S - Only black women refuse to take responsibility for who the sex up and have kids with.

Sweetiepie_1 wrote:

Well a few days ago this really cute black guy asked me for my number at Wendy's but he seemed really shy, it took him a while to finally approach me. I thought it was adorable but I gave him my friends number because he just wasn't my type. I like guys who are tough and have a great confidence level. Who can have the balls in the relationship, and are protective. I'm not looking for a jackass if that's what your thinking. I just get turned on SO easily by bad boys. I don't know why but its kind of a fetish and its mostly all I can think about these days. Nothings better than a sexy bad boy that doesn't take any sh*t lets be honest. A guy who isnt soft and is rebellious and so on! I'm pretty sure that's every girls fantasy.
Lol ladies I just want to know your opinion on this though.
Do bad boys have more sex appeal?
( I'm just wanting your opinions so please show some respect.)

you fit the bw stereotype to the tee ruff necks instead of finding a good possible bm companion when you get older you will regret your choices and you will sound like the same bw fools who are on here now complaining.

candaycoated wrote:

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so you be ok with beaten your azz to keep you "in line"? A bad boy doesn't want a "good girl" anyway.He wants a ride or die chick like himself.He would probably see you as a pushover and just use you for sex and money.

See that's where everybody goes wrong. I never provide money for a man its the other way around if you ask me. I've never been a push over in my life. I'm a good person yes but at the same time I know when to get rid of that good person mentality and go into b*tch mode. A bad boy to me isn't a push over but will know his place. Abuse is out of the equation that's not the bad boy I'm looking for. Yes, maybe he is looking for a ride or die chick like himself but that's not the type I'm looking for I'm not looking for a thug etc. Just a guy whose strong and knows how to do his part. But I see where your coming from when its all said and done.