14-Year-Old McAlester Boy Killed In Collision With Semi

If you didn't want a conflict then you shouldn't have wrote he deserved what he got. You wanted to open a can of worms and you got it, but don't be a coward and shy down when you don't want to hear other peoples opinions. You kow you are in the wrong for saying that, and if you think people should should die for a simple traffic violation, then you should not even be a cop. You are suppose to serve and protect. And this forum is about the death of a 14 year old boy and how tragic it is, so why couldn't you have said that, instead of slamming the dad? Pratice what you preach.

Pittsburg County Sucks wrote:

If you didn't want a conflict then you shouldn't have wrote he deserved what he got. You wanted to open a can of worms and you got it, but don't be a coward and shy down when you don't want to hear other peoples opinions. You kow you are in the wrong for saying that, and if you think people should should die for a simple traffic violation, then you should not even be a cop. You are suppose to serve and protect. And this forum is about the death of a 14 year old boy and how tragic it is, so why couldn't you have said that, instead of slamming the dad? Pratice what you preach.

For me to have said what you think i should have said would not have been my words or the truth. I am an American citizen that exercised his right of freedom of speech. I did not libel or slander anyone so what i did say, i had all the right to say. Just because you didn't like it is your problem. Do you see me telling you what you should have said? Nope. You have the right to say what you want as long as you don't slander or libel anyone. The man did get what he deserved. The thing is, I never implied or said what he got. The people on this forum came to their own conclusion of what they thought i meant. Too bad they was wrong. i think you have read words that are not there. You cant show me anywhere were i said he deserved anything. I just said he deserved what he got and never specified what that was. It all just shows me just how uneducated and ignorant some people really are. Btw, I understand new evidence has been lifted from the floor boards of his car. Guess people should be more careful of what they do inside their cars.

I think if, you are a cop. you should be ashamed of yourself for saying this man got what he deserved. I don't think anyone could do anything to make him feel any worse than he does now. He did not deserve to lose his son. Where is your compassion? I hope you never need compassion. You may not get it.

dgk wrote:

I think if, you are a cop. you should be ashamed of yourself for saying this man got what he deserved. I don't think anyone could do anything to make him feel any worse than he does now. He did not deserve to lose his son. Where is your compassion? I hope you never need compassion. You may not get it.

Did i say he deserved to lose his son? If so, please show me were i did so. Where is my compassion? There is no law that says i have to show any compassion to anyone but myself. You hope i never need compassion? I wouldn't want anyone's compassion. I can take car of my own without dependence on other people for anything. If this had been me, I would have paid attention to detail and obeyed all traffic laws. That way if i did have an accident or something it would not have been my fault and i wouldn't be sitting around sucking pitty from someone else. All accidents are preventable, even this one that claimed the life of a young boy. if people lived by lifes rules they would never need to worry about their own actions. Accidents happen due to self negligence,lack of regard for others and the out right lack of respect for the laws of life. Now I'm not talking about the laws we cops enforce, I'm talking about the laws of life. I would guess you have never been taught the laws of life or you wouldn't be sitting there carrying on a conversation you haven't a clue about. You are right about one thing, the father needs to blame himself and feel miserable about what happen. He was the one that through his negligence orchestrated the chain of events that took his sons life. He should feel guilty. That's just human nature. Maybe you need to learn the laws of life. You would definitely no be struggling as you are. You most likely think you have a good life the way things are but in fact it could be much better only if you knew how to make the necessary changes for it to be so. But then again, you have no idea what that means. You may think you do because you are obviously in denial of the truth. See. with people who think the way you do, it's always someone elses fault. You are in denial of your own actions. Don't ask others what you can do to make it better, ask your self. it's you who are in charge of you, not someone else. It's people like you that are the blame for the way your life is, not me. Don't like the truth? Don't read it. Your choice, not mine. Don't want to hear it? Don't respond to it. Want to change your life and learn the lifes laws? Do it. Theres no such thing as can't, you either do or don't. Get it?

Pittsburg county cop wrote:

<quoted text> thank you so kindly for proving the point that i made to Miss molly. I knew someone would do just that if given enough time. The way you could have proven me wrong would have been to just not post a reply or even agknowledge my post. But you just couldn't resist the opportunity to sling hatred and try to be the queen of drama. You have no idea what i meant and you have no idea what i mean now. The best thing you could have done was just keep you mouth shut and go on about your own business. But no, You have the need to feel like you are 100% right. Fine. That's your opinion and you are entitled to it just as i am mine. If you noticed i haven't replied to anyone else on this forum. Why? Because i am smart enough to know that by doing so would just cause conflict. You need conflict, I don't. Thanks again for proving my point. I will Ignore any spew from you from here on. Remember, This forum is about the death of a 14 year old boy not about you or me. Only a drama hog would stray off topic to push their own point. that you did.

What you meant to say was... "Oh, crap, she has a point." What a jerk. Your post is just a LONG way around a short bush. You said something crappy, own it.

Just to let you know, I understand and agree with every word you say Pittsburg County Cop. Don't let it bother you what these others say. Their day is coming. The guy made his own bed, now let him sleep in it. No one made him do what he did or made the choices he made for him. It's all on him. To bad the stars wasn't in his favor. Oh well, Shit happens.

The intersection where this happened is dangerous. Has anyone taken into consideration that the sun was in the drivers eyes when he pulled out into the roadway and simply did not see the oncoming vehicle? And the reason that the son was not buckled was because this vehicle was so old and not equipped with seatbelts. This was an unfortunite accident plain and simple. Quit beating on this man, he's paying a hefty price as it is. This could happen to any of you.

No seat belts because it was an old car? The law says no matter what the year of vehicle, excluding school buses, seat belts will be installed and used. Antique vehicles have to have seat belts to be driven on our roads. You just told us about one more responsibility the driver neglected to do. Put seat belts in the car. What a goof ball. As far as the sun being in his eyes, If he had stopped at the sign like it says.(STOP). He may have had time to look for a safe opening before entering the roadway. I think you are just making one lame ass excuse after another for the driver negligence. Shame on you. So to you, QUIT making excuses.

How sad is that blessings to the family.

Sorry for the fact that you people can't except the truth. How sad is that. Due to the mans negligents and lack of respect for the laws of driving, he had a wreck and lost his son. Who fault is that? It his fault! If he had been more aware of his surroundings he could have avoided this accident. ALL!! accidents are preventable. Maybe it was just time for this boy to go and be with God. God is in control you know. Lets blame God. You people who keep making excuses are idiots.

L D Harris wrote:

Sorry for the fact that you people can't except the truth. How sad is that. Due to the mans negligents and lack of respect for the laws of driving, he had a wreck and lost his son. Who fault is that? It his fault! If he had been more aware of his surroundings he could have avoided this accident. ALL!! accidents are preventable. Maybe it was just time for this boy to go and be with God. God is in control you know. Lets blame God. You people who keep making excuses are idiots.

Ok..an accident is just that...an accident. That means it was unintentional. You don't even make sense. One minute you are blaming the dad and then telling everyone to blame God. I pray to God that you never unintentionally hurt or kill someone, but if you do, I'm sure you agree that you should be punished to the utmost degree. Idiot!

Ok Buddy, I hope someday someone slames into one of your loved ones and killes them. unintentionally. It will be an accident. Shit happens, so i dont expect you to do anything but forgive the driver that killed your loved one. just let them go on with life. just say, Its ok buddy, shit happens. You will have a forum just like this one seeking other peoples pitty. I think God is your problem. I find lots of people who believe in God. The only reason they do is because they have to believe in something cause they dont believe in themselves. Now you watch. All the good God rearing loving God freaks that read this will show their true Godly colors in thier replys. Crank head!!!

While reading all of the post I am reminded of the story of Jesus. Jesus was judged in this same fassion. Who are we that we judge either the dad or the cop. One thing we must remember everyone has a right to their oppinion and everyone has a right to feel the way they do. What has happened here in my oppinion is like the old lench mobs. All I am hearing from everyone towards both the father of this young man and the cop is "crucify him,crucify him and hang him hang him." Both of these were done in ignorance. Have we as a community, nation not learned from our Bibles, and past mistakes. We should be praying for both the family who lost their loved one and the police who put their lives on the line every day to keep us safe. I'll pray for them and I ask that you join me and do the same.