Plane crashes in field near Madison

victoria1 wrote:

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Haha, well I know that definitely works. I just recently started spinning when a dear friend made me a beautiful wood carved hand painted drop spindle. I'm currently spinning some beautiful alpaca roving I picked up at an alpaca farm. I dyed the roving with kool-aid before I started spinning it and it's coming out beautifully.
I plan on making some Fair Isle sweaters with it.

Purple Gurl wrote:

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At least you got the joke. Too bad Mr. CarlG was too stupid to get it and had to throw in some digs and pretend I was taking things to personally when I simply saw a pun in a post and responded to one post of yours for its own merit.
To bad Carl is too much of a sexist to think that women can be as intelligent and analytical as I am. And that is my best quality, while wasted rubber Carl wants to pretend that is a flaw and pretend I analyze things too much in order to abuse me just like other trash like it does. To me, my freedom, thinking for myself, and my ability to use my intelligence to never need others are my best traits. It is impossible for me to take things too personally or to over-analyze anything. Everything I do is the precisely right amount for me. What is right for me is not right for you. Each individual person has their own right and wrong in trivial matters. But Carl is too stupid to get it. And I hope he/it gets ongoing punishment for how he hurt and betrayed me, when he could have kept his trap shut and just observed me and watched my superior ways of saying and doing things. But he had to meddle, had to control, had to be negative and pretend things were wrong with me.
Well, I honestly hope he/it never speaks to me again. He pulled this sh*t on me once before, and with me, you only get one chance. The correct way to treat me is to not try to get too close, never comment on my emotions nor draw conclusions about them, never help me with anything unless I ask, and never say anything that a mother would say to me. In other words, stay out of my way, not try to "correct" me, never try to boss me around, and allow me to make ALL decisions in my own life with no help, suggestions, or input. It is most important that I feel it is me vs. the world and for others to not steal that feeling from me nor rob me of the natural lessons I would learn on my own without their input. It is important that everyone treats me as an equal and doesn't try to mother or baby me in any sort of way, but treat me as an anonymous, detached, equal, mature adult female.

victoria1 wrote:

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Well if you weren't taking it personally then, sure seems like you are now.
You know what I do when I'm feeling like I'm on the verge of stress induced break down.
I spin roving and dye wool. Spinning roving into yarn is very calming, soothing and has a meditative quality you might find helpful.

Father Theresa wrote:

<quoted text>Spinning might help me in public places. People just don't seem to understand my need to relieve my anxiety while shopping, waiting at DMV, etc..amazing what people will flip out over.

victoria1 wrote:

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Mature adult females don't start nasty "highschool-drama-esque " polls about other people.

Purple Gurl wrote:

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Yes, I am taking things personally now and I have that right, and without others noticing nor commenting. I was having a wonderful day until that thing butted in. And I will have one again once I am left alone to vent and repair the damage to my reputation that it caused by that one post. Everyone but it could see that I was having a good time just being me until that point. But me being my usual humorous self was not good enough for it. It had to read lies and fake chit into it.
Unlike you, I never have stress-induced breakdowns. That must be a degrading experience and I am lucky to not have those. I guess I can be thankful for having better genes. Too many people cannot understand when a strong woman like me uses my brain and gives others a piece of my mind. They have to pretend I am male, having a problem, in need of their help, or degrading things people pretend in order to feel like somebody at the expense of others.
Unlike you, I mind it most relaxing to vent like I right now. That is how all healthy people respond to problems. They are honest and vent into the open. It is stupid to meditate when others are the source of your problems. What did God or your inner self do to cause it? So if others caused it, then taking it back out onto others is the only thing that can fix it. Everything else is superstition and games.
And you are making the same tragic mistake that it made, and that is worrying about others in matters that are not your business and pretending others have problems. I would never degrade anyone by hinting they have problems, making comments about their emotions, casting doubt on their gender, or helping them with anything they did ask for help doing first - not until they violate me in such ways first and then it is all fair game. So I would appreciated being respected in the same ways I have shown it.

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agree

Purple Gurl wrote:

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No, but once someone violates me as they have, EVERYTHING is fair game. I was keeping to myself, minding my own business, and being silly. I was absolutely enjoying myself. Then it violated me in 3 ways in that one post. And notice it is gone. That is its MO. And, notice something. It didn't do the passive-aggressive game until I made subtle hints to another which might have been seen as judgmental of one its sacred cows. To it, if you don't think its favorite sins are good, moral, pure, etc., then you automatically are seen as having an anger problem or reading too much into things. This thing is more insidious and evil than Ginger allegedly was.

victoria1 wrote:

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LOL @ tragic mistake.
Well for the record I don't think you have A problem. I think you have a multitude of them.